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It feels like I have been trying to be successful for years.

For one reason or another each thing I have tried did not work. I am great at a lot of things. I am a good writer (though, I have lost the passion to do so), a great cook and baker (this is what I have been trying to succeed at lately, but every step I take forward is two steps back), I want to take any job, but what about my passion (cooking/baking)?

There are too many things to list and Im tired of telling/listing my problems. I think that I need to compromise my morals in order to survive. Its like I dont even want an answer I want a solution I want real concrete help. I need someone to stand beside me and hold me up while Im falling.

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Newark, DE, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

good luck with that O.O

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Yes,support,I know what not having that is like,since i’m pretty much a recluse,and have no support from family,I listen ,read,and study self improvement,success ,inspirational and motivational speakers,people.Of course do learn from others too.got to have balance.I always recommend Joyce Meyer,Dr.Wayne Dyer (especially his older stuff.And above all,the Bible. it sounds like you are and have been doing everything externally,so that’s why I recommend working on the inside ,the someone said ‘change your thoughts,change your life.Hope this helps you.May your cup runneth over my friend.

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Twizzlenic offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
Southampton, M4, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

What have you achieved? You sound like you have a lot of options, but direction… Where to put all your eggs… Major question. What is your passion? What makes your boat float?

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Twizzlenic offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
Southampton, M4, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Are you in the uk? C.A.B. is great. You can go to your doc too. They have tons of help at their fingertips. Don’t be so independent that you lose sight of where you want to be. It’s so easy to do that these days. It has taken over 6 years to finish my kiddies book, but it’s brick wall time again. Just hope it’s not another 6 years… LOL!

You aren’t really alone here. Help.com is a good place most of the time. If you want help standing, decide where you want to be standing. Don’t close yourself off to anyone as you may be pleasantly surprised… Could be disappointed but you have good odds of getting the better end of the deal as you have the talent.

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

start your own bakery yum yum like fresh bread and rolls and cake cant wait…

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1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

I want to thank you all for your responses…someone has said fix the inside…I had a very close relationship with God since I was about 12 and I am a healthnut/vegetarian…currently I am unemployed and hoping some bill collector doesnt take my return.

I know what makes my boat float, but I can’t seem to get it to float my boat.

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Twizzlenic offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
Southampton, M4, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

I understand. But try as many agencies as you can. What about teaching? You could teach all the lads out there, that there is more to life than baked beans on toast.

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fearsyst offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Bassett, VA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

Thank you all for your responses. I could no longer be depressed and things started to look up. I am in the process of trying to purchase a business with the help and support of some family members and friends.

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