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OK i know this girl a little and i just talked to her,

because i sat right next to her, well when the year was going by, i started to have an interest in her, and now i cant get her off my mind. i want to talk to her, but i don’t know what to say. i get nervous around her, and today it took me 30 minutes to have the courage to ask her if she wanted to sit in my seat, because we were watching a movie in class, and my seat had a better view. i think she notices me but, i dont know, what should i do?

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Chef offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Portland, OR, US | 5 years, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Ask her out man.
what the worst that could happen?

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outtaluck offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Carrizozo, NM, US | 5 years, 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

i know, i always thought of that. Whats the worst that can happen i dont know? i just don’t know what to say also.

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gurl110000 offline Verified User (5 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

maybe before jumping into asking her out start with little conversations. you sit beside her in class? forget your pen on purpose and ask if you can borrow one of hers… or borrow a piece of paper… say “i didnt get that..? do you understand?”
gradually things will turn into more interesting conversations “so what are you up to this weekend?” just make is constant conversation with her even if its just about school because and talk to her every day. she will give you the vibe if she minds talking to you or not and then begin asking her about herself.. just make it casual. i wouldnt ask her out right away if you JUST started talking to her. take it slow, get to know her

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Chef offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Portland, OR, US | 5 years, 4 months ago (25 minutes after post)

those are some good ideas from Val26

johnpsmith, just go for it man.

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5 years, 4 months ago (4 hours, 3 minutes after post)

propose to her!!!!!!!!!!!!

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nextstar offline Verified User (5 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 4 months ago (7 hours, 22 minutes after post)

just till her that you have two tickets for cinema & ask her if she would like to join you .. good luck :)

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outtaluck offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Carrizozo, NM, US | 5 years, 4 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Hey Val, what other questions could i ask her?

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gurl110000 offline Verified User (5 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 4 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

honestly just keep it smooth and act like its all very natural to you. like i said start talking about school stuff because that is one for sure thing you have in common with her then move on to whether you like the subject or not but you really love _____ … hopefully she’ll help out with the convo and add what she likes (What class) then you could ask questions about it… just keep the conversation as flowy and natural as possible. be kind girls love that. you could ask her about herself - if she’s seen a movie you have seen recently … try to relate topics you can talk about to things she likes. for exaple her fav class is history - talk about nation treasurer? things like that…
as long as it is natural then you dont need to know what the next question will be :) good luck

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Anonymous #
5 years, 4 months ago (2 days after post)

thanks val, i give it a go on Tuesday, thats when i see her. thanks alot

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An Unknown Location | 5 years, 3 months ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

whip out your cockles and be ask her to chill with you on a friday :].. works for me everytime

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