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parents are so frustrating somtimes…

.so heres how it went down…. i woke up i came into the living room my mom asked me what i was gunna do for the day i said that i was gunna go down to my girlfriend’s house untill i had to go to work she offered to give me a ride down there on the snowmobile then she relized that she had 2 dogs with her. now i said to her “i think they can handle it if you leave for a sec mom”…….now apparently i guess i had a bad additude about it my mom addressed that to me ….i didnt think i said anything that bad so i asked my dad and he aggreed with my mom but i guess it was… i sat there for a sec and then i said “screw this” and walked to my room walked around for a sec and decided not to be mad any more i just wanted to drop it i came back out to the living room and my mom was like “what are u so pissed about?” i replyed “i didnt think what i said was that bad mom, i was angry but i got over it” they wanted to keep on talking about it i started feeling unfortable and picked on and i lost my cool and started raising my voice which prolly wasnt a good ideabut yeah i need help on resolving this issue if anyone has any suggestions about this they would be most appreciated thanx! i wanna make this better!

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princesa_8990 offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 years, 3 months ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Honestly, I hate how there’s absolutely nothing (usually) we can really do as teens (im guessing u r..) & it sucks but somehow eventually we get over it. Not completely, but we do. I don’t even know how, because my own mom will take her anger out on me sometimes and pick a fight with me, and never admits she;s wrong. Your parents are probably not exactly the same, but this much I’ve gone through so I feel you. I guess I would just tell you maybe to talk to your mom (mine’s pretty much crazy so there’s no chance talking to her.) Hopefully yours are more understanding overall. Best wishes, I would say to sit down and talk to them when you have a chance, try your best not to be angry or defensive, just take a big breath, knwo it’ll be awkward and uncomfortable, and go for it. It will most likely have some kind of turnout, which is better than never trying at all. Good luck.

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cheeba offline Verified User (6 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Park City, UT, US | 5 years, 3 months ago (21 hours, 13 minutes after post)

thats what i did ….i appologized and all…. were all good now but i still hate havin to apologize for somthin thats so stupid ….jeeze haha thatnks for ur support

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Ramnika.icoo offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 years, 9 months after post)

Mom and Dad they act like theyve never been through this ‘phase’ i mean **** if i say a word extra on defending myself theyre both so aggresive! And its like they expect me to keep my cool al da screwd time! Dang im a teen n i do get cranky and sumtimes feel sick of this nagging!

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lionslibrasandbri offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 years, 2 months after post)

Parents can be a pain.Mine has been a pain at times.Bugging me and Nagging me when I have body problems,yet they are more understanding these days.Talk to them nicely otherwise it could go bad for you.No offense,yet parents want your attention,respect and time,yet if you applied for a job,saved up your money and moved out you would be out of their life.Try that.

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