girl help: Am I upset that he doesn’t want me?

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Am I upset that he doesn’t want me?

Or am I more upset at the fact I’ve lost something that could’ve been. I’m always upset I’ve lost something that I could have. Never that I have had. This makes it twice as hard for some reason. Maybe it’s because the good comes with the bad and I haven’t even experienced the good, only the bad. But to have lost something that was so close, that could have bee n, and I’m pretty sure it was my fault. I’m just not entirely coping well. I just don’t understand to be honest. I don’t see what is so wrong with me. Why won’t a guy pursue me like they do other girls? Yes I have my issues, but why doesn’t he see I’m worth it? The one guy I meet
that shows the tiniest bit of interest in me and I drive him away. Why do I screw everything up?

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Plasmarox 1 #
Chatteris, I9, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

All people make mistakes. Try again, maybe he wants to know you really =]
xx

Help me with: i havnt recived any notices since december last year.

Anonymous #
1 year, 9 months ago (22 minutes after post)

I have done, several times. He has made it clear. We are just not compatible apparently. He has also been pretty nasty to me about it.

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Chatteris, I9, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

well… sounds like your screwed. Maybe apologise? I have to go sleep now, its 11:35 where i live =]
xx

Help me with: i havnt recived any notices since december last year.

Anonymous #
1 year, 9 months ago (2 hours, 22 minutes after post)

I have, in a weird way. He’s got loads of other girls that are possibilities for him. I was just a something he talked to when he was bored. I was stupid to think that something could of been anyway.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 months after post)

im in the same position

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 months after post)

i really like this kid and he cheated on his girl friend with me and then he went to the beach and i find out that they are together again….his girl friend and i arent fighting at all about it but he wants to just be friends…i really liked him a lot and i dont know what to do. i spent the past 2 days crying over it. my advise is that you just need to talk to you BEST friend. that helped me lots…and eat lots of swiss rolls, they help to. they will be your new best friend. haha. but sweet pea…i wish you luck…i really do…i know how you feel. GOOD LUCK HUN!!!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

u learn from ur mistake
trust me its not like u can ever stop loving the guy you just ave 2 learn how 2 leave wivout im!!!but u must also noe dat life will go on with or without yo

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