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Muzikfrk88
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Neglected Help.com for too long.

So I haven’t been on forever because I was so super busy. I’ve been working and hanging out with friends, etc. I kind of reclaimed the life I lost. Well at least I thought so. I had a rough day today. sorta. My boyfriend and I decided to break up today. After a year and 4 months its over. I mean there is a window still open for us to get back together “someday,” but for now were both single. It was a nice clean break and no ones feelings were hurt. Unfortunately I’m realising that without Mike, I don’t really have a social life. No one wanted to hang out today. I’ve been alone all day and it really got me down. Fortunately I have this relatively new friend named Mark who is willing to hang out with me later tonight. I’m kind of worried though because I know he likes me. I’m pretty fond of him, but the break up did just happen this morning. So I dunno if he is gonna try anything or not, but I really need to have some fun. I forgot how hard ending a relationsip can be, even if it is on good terms. So I’m kinda just havin a hard time with that. on the bright side, work is pretty good. I’m still with my family with the 3 little girls, and now I’m working with another family. A mom and a dad with twins. They are 3, a boy and a girl. Great kids, the boy is autistic. He is a lot of work, but I’m falling in love with them both. This is also a great learning experience. I mean working with an autistic child, I’m learning so much and he is so wonderful. Anyways, I really missed everyone on here. I’ll try to be on more.

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Muzikfrk88 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Thanks TJ! ahh I missed you and your wisdom!

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Muzikfrk88 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (10 minutes after post)

oh well in that case I suppose just TJ is fine… lol even without the wisdom your still pretty cool. :)

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Help me with: Im still alive… I consider that an accomplishment.
ixlovexian offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Hatfield, F8, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (17 minutes after post)

i dont know you, but welcome back :) and i hope your relationship part of life gets better soon, plus i think you helping an autistic child is great :)

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (34 minutes after post)

I have been away for a while too. Doesn’t have the same warm feeling it had last may. When will and finley were here and frequently posting…
still try to share my advice with all who will listen, however. And perhaps, if I am lucky, I will receive some too.

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Vim offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Welcome back. Just take it slow with the new guy friend. You never know what will happen though, be open to possibilities, not talking about the physical stuff, but the “you-never-know” who will be the next to enter your life.

Sometimes being alone is necessary. When we are social creatures we think being alone always leads to loneliness, but it can be some of the most important you-time out there.

I’ve been in some sloppy relationship stuff and ended up meeting the man I’m going to be spending the rest of my days with (or so we plan). We are open, honest, and up front from the start and in the present.

Just keep a positive attitude and friends will come abound…I can count my closet friends on one hand and I think I’m the luckiest girl in the world. It is easier to be intimate in smaller numbers.

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Valentino offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Johannesburg, 06, ZA | 1 year, 9 months ago (15 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Hey welcome back, hope all goes well with the man, all i can say is gove it some time and it wil all be sorted again…

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