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I am getting quite tired and confused with life.

Please help. I am jst unable to get attacthed to anybody. I don’t seem to love new friends much. And always changing places due to tranfers is making it even more difficult to adopt to new situations.
I have hypothyroidism which often makes me feel depressed. My thyroid levels are normal but I am not able to understand what is wrong with me. Is there anybody who is a good trained councilar with whom I can share few things and get a proper advice. It will be very helpful if he/she can advice me online or thru help.com. I Just want to be as active and confidant as before. Sometimes I feel I am a pscyco or something like that.

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lena g offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
North Jackson, OH, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (27 minutes after post)

if you don`t mind sharing there are people that can help you here.

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peachy-keen offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (39 minutes after post)

hypothyrodism… thyroid levels?
I have no idea what you just said but it sounds like you’re really smart!
I don’t know much about your situation, but if your in the age range, you could try calling the kids help phone.
Try making plans to be active and telling friends or family about them, that way, you’ll feel the urge to go and be active.
On the being confident front, this excercise helped me but I’m not sure if it’ll work in your situation; Go to the mall and find a random guy or girl depending on your gender. Then just talk to them. Just grit your teeth and go introduce yourself. Of course this will sometimes backfire but when it does work it makes you feel tons more confident!

Just know that there are people out there who care about you :)

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1 year, 9 months ago (53 minutes after post)

lena g
I don’t mind sharing at all. but I don’t know how to start. I feel exploited by parents , in laws and because of my unhappy background I feel I am just troublig my very happy( by nature) and loving husband. I tend to have terrible mood swings. Sometimes I feel I am not able to express my love and affection towards my daughters in a positive way. Because of concern towards them I tend to trouble them more than helping out. PLEASE tell me who can really help me to calm down and lead me to more balaced life.

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☆miss lilies☆ offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

There are too many concerns you have now. My heart goes out to you. Take each concern at a time. Start with yourself. Are you stressed? Do you work?

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Valentino offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Johannesburg, 06, ZA | 1 year, 9 months ago (13 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Hey sweety, its just a little phase for now, it cant last forever, it can only get better. If god puts you through this he will get you out of it.

This is for you…

If a happiness poem could bring forth a smile,
Then my face would always dress in style.

If my ears could hear my computer screen,
From one to another, they, too, would grin.

My keyboard types for my eyes not my tongue
This happiness poem will never be sung.

But what of my eyes? Don’t they shine?
Yes, but not from this poem of mine.

The pen is mightier than the sword,
But a pen can write only words.

The feelings I sense and the senses I feel
For keyboard and screen remain far too real.

My ears and my nose remain at rest.
My cheeks and hairline are doing their best.

But if this happiness poem could make my mouth smile,
My face would forever dress up in style

Hope that this poem will add a smile to your dial

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samoastev offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Arlington Heights, IL, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (13 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I would first go to a “GOOD Doctor”and get your hyperthyroidism cared for.Go to webMD.com and start getting some answers.Than the rest of your solutions will come!

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Valentino offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Johannesburg, 06, ZA | 1 year, 9 months ago (13 hours, 11 minutes after post)

100%, i agree

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kirstenstellat offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Syracuse, NY, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 days, 12 hours after post)

prayed for you!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 9 months ago (3 days, 19 hours after post)

Thanks a lot kirstenstellat. I Beleive in the power of prayer. It was very nice of you.

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kirstenstellat offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Syracuse, NY, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 days, 5 hours after post)

Read Isaiah 33. It is in the Old Testament of the Bible. It describes how Jesus Christ bore our sicknesses in His body and healed them..I also recommend “When God Weeps”, by Joni Earckson Tada

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satya_rai4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

theres no need to get so confused……

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kirstenstelat offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

Same as 5 months ago…Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forever…He loves you.

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