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One of my best friend can be mean and annoying.

She is super sensitive so she gets annoyed so easily. I try to not let her ruin my time. If I get excited or angry, or not even, she’ll say, “calm down.” so trys to outsmart me. I also have a freckle on my back and she goes, “you have a mole on your back.” Like, what the heck? She is a red faced pimple and acne covered red haired short girl who is annoying! Some friend she is. Like, why the heck would you say that to someone if your cousin actually has a real mole on her face and you are covered in red acne? What do I do to make her stop?

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balaji_khann offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
New Delhi, 07, IN | 1 year, 9 months ago (24 minutes after post)

don’t worry….(first thing to do)
then when you meet your friend…turn your face to someone else…and start talking to some other person…

try not to stay all aloof and alone..
don’t pay attention to her when she’s talking to you..
appreciate her when she does something good..
don’t try to get too close to her….. and don’t be without her as wel…..

don’t ever try to show off in front of her..keep whatever stated in your mind..

if this helps then do contact me..

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molotok offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 1 year, 9 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Hehe…
You are funny….

So tell her:
“There is one place in your back… wait, let me find it again… yes, there it is! There is this place in your back, where there is NOT a pimple! It looks almost clean as well!”

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molotok offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 1 year, 9 months ago (37 minutes after post)

…but don’t take it so seriously.

She is probably envious and just HAD to find what she considers being a flaw.

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Valentino offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Johannesburg, 06, ZA | 1 year, 9 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Hey dont let this affect you in any way.every person has their own beuty, dont let any of this get to you, shes not perfect too.

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lordi.fan.93 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (42 minutes after post)

she doesnt sound much of a friend if she does that, my advise would be not to be friends with her and find somebody else to be friends with then she might appreciate you a liitle bit more or you could just tell her what u think an ask her to stop it.

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heather* offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Well, maybe you could tell her to stop and that it really annoys you, but if she don’t understand that, then maybe it’s a good idea to avoid her. Friends are ment to help, not hurt.

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Omgitsskati offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (11 months, 3 weeks after post)

Ugh I have the same problem! She can be like, really nasty and plain rude to me around our new friends. I don’t know of hey realize this too but it’s a big problem

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fisherihaman offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

i have the same problem to thats why im on here and now i know what im going to do
just go out and tell her how you feel and if she feel mad,sad just say you dont want to hurt there feelings just please dont be annoying and say it was rude to say what she did

…………. i did it adn it worked you can try it too

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