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desultoryllama
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I am completely defeated by the numerosity of guys who are looking for nothing more than a casual affair.

Surely there is another decent guy out there who is looking for something more rewarding and worthwhile. His existence would be refreshing.

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TJ McCheese offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 166 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Just to qualify this - you’re a gay man, correct?

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issybelle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 111 #
Boulder, CO, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

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goodluck babe

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eechal offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Boise, ID, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 17 hours after post)

I’m sorry you are feeling down (or were 4 days ago). You may need to reconsider where/how you are meeting guys. Sometimes the location or method attract more of these casual guys.

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skyseekr offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

I agree, watch where you are meeting these guys. If you are looking in bars, I would stay way clear of that. Just keep living your life, know that your special someone is out there, and talk to lots of people who surround you. You just might run into someone who knows someone you might want to meet.

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skyseekr offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

and if that doesn’t work all the time, atleast you have a larger circle of friends you love spending time with you. See, it’s a win-win situation.

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