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There will come a time when your life will be your own. Stay strong till then. It gets better.

Don’t forget to talk, either here or to a school cousellor. You don’t have to do this alone.

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you just gotta remember things always get better, every one feels like that some point in their life, but it always gets better. you just gotta remember that and keep your head up, so many things can change in such a short period of time. have you tried talking to your mom telling her how you feel, that might help a bit.

though this is a low point in your life, i urge you to go to a counseler and hang out with your friends more.
talking to your mom about it is good also.

Dear Friend: Remove the word “hate” from your vocabulary.Hate is the cancer of the soul and everything positive in life,it sucks the life out of anyone.If you have this many people that as you say you “hate” perhaps ask yourself why you live with this strong negative emotion.One who “hates” cannot expect positive uplifting things to happen.If someone has wronged you than your instint to not like them can be implimented ,but do so with the attitude how can I change these situations.This usually begins with looking inwardly at ourselves and asking ourselves how can “I” improve these situations.Every deed & action begins with a thought,we need to control our thoughts .Its sort of like a person who cannot see well getting a pair of glasses,it wasn’t that the objects we previous to getting glasses were all as they appeared to us ,it was our perception of them.Everyone of us needs to get our spiritual glasses checked from time to time.If we don’t we get perhaps a distorted view and besides that the results are usually a headache ,which makes us irritable.I hope you will consider my advise,Im not saying its all your fault but its human nature to look at others before ourselves.Pray for wisdom (a lost virtue in our modern time)Your Friend Samoasteve

Hate is a very strong and powerful word. You know something my son used to think like that. I’ve helped him by telling him I don’t want him to think so low of himself, you have a good heart, I also remind him that he saved my life and that he has a very special place in my heart. I’m sure you have a special place in your parents hearts also because ifyou didn’t they would not of bought you into this world. Children are a blessing from God and you have to believe that.Stop thinking so down on yourself you are a good person and I know that all you need is a little TLC. You know what I want you to do? If you are home at your computer and your mom is home stop what you are doing get up and go hug your mother and tell her you love her for being there and for raising you as best as she could. This will help both of you open the lines of communication with each other. Who knows maybe she’s having a bad day or something. Lovew conquers all remember that. Start your day off with a hug and tell your mom you love her and most impotantly go back to school. Education is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. Be proud of who you are.

Besides life is to precious. It’s a gift from God don’t throw that away. Treasure it everyday. Besides maybe something happened in your mom past and maybe it’s catching up with her know so maybe that’s why she’s mean to you. I don’t think she means to be mean to you. Give her a hug. That will make her day. Really because I used to think the same way until someone told me to do that and know I tell her I love her everyday and I visit with her almost everyday and I hug her and we know have such a wonderful relationship with each other I wish I would of done this many years ago. They say you’re never to old to learn. I’m 44 and I have the best mother/daughter relationship that I have with her and would not change that for anything in the world.