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is it ok for me not to care that its my birthday?

I stopped caring about ages many years ago, its not that i don’t want to be older, its just i don’t think it matters. I’m the same person i was yesteday, what difference does my age make? I think its all just an image and an excuse for a party.

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i may not be sane offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 293 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

sure its ok

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

its okay. it could be good to not care about your b-day. just live life one day at a time if your out of school and already been in your career for awhile. do what you want. dont let other people change how you see things or how you want to live your life. heres the quote i made that i live by, even tho its not proper english- “I do what i does” + “I does what i do”. just do you and dont worry about anything else

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Chesapeake, VA, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

After I turned 21, I didn’t care about b-days. I can party anytime I want now. I do turn 25 this year though, so I am excited about cheeper car insurance. Don’t worry about it.. birthdays are just another day.

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

age is just a number

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

well u cant drive at 3 so..

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lotzofanimal offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Ocean View, NJ, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

What’s another year? Just be careful not to upset friends and family who go out of their way to celebrate it. It may not matter to you, but to someone else it may be something special. So even if you don’t care about it be happy if someone else does. Let them have fun. I know when I was younger I would ask my father what he wanted for his birthday and he would reply a coffin. How sick is that. I tell my kids and grandkids I already have what I want. I have them.

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bjk60 offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Milford, CT, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Yes it’s ok, just like everyone else said. If you don’t want to celebrate your birthdate anymore then don’t. It’s up to you. Hope this helps.

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Still Breathing offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

its perfectly ok to feel that way

my best friends HATES birthdays toooooooooooo.

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