well.. i hope for your sake and theirs… it never happened.. but i hope now that you use precaution and keep this movie in mind everytime you lay down with a girl..
haha those were the only 2 times it happened. after that I’ve been extra careful. not even one night stands. Protection. everything else or it never happens for me :P but you think they would’ve tried to contact me if it did happen or like the movies I’ll find out 10 years later when the kid comes and says im 16-17 and I’m yours :P
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lol.. let me tell you a story… with my second daughter… my first daughters father kept cheating on me for many years… so i decided to get back at him… by going to a party… i was on the pill and he used a condom… well… then came along my daughter stephanie… so… BECAREFUL…
God your scaring me.. ok first of all congradulations about your kids.. thats awesome.. I know it can all happen even after the protection and like i said because of that thats why I’m extra safe now.. but then again :( what do I do now about my past?
the only thing that i can even suggest is searching these girls out…. making sure it didnt happen to ease your own mind…
thanks alot :( though I’ve been trying since I’ve been thinking about it and I cant find no way to find them anymore.. I dint know where they lived, I dont know what they did what their last names was I cant even remmemeber clearly how they looked :P
oops…. well.. unless you go back to their home towns and visit them personally.. i think you are S.O.L..
ill brb.. have to go start dinner..
no no they were in metropolitian cities.. towns or villages wouldve been easier.. sure.. thanks alot again
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thanks nah i know.. it doesnt happen anymore I was a dumb teenager not even dumb dont know how I was dumb those two times :P.. I’m more like a monk now.. ok well thats not true :P but im careful like i said before
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by being safe i meant I usually dont any more :P haha turning kinda religous
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1 year, 9 months ago (3 hours, 11 minutes after post)
I’m sure they would have tried to contact you at that time if something happened. Or, at that age, they would have probably got an abortion. With all that said, the probability that one of these girls became pregnant and kept the baby without telling you is pretty low.
Thank you anonymous :D you just made me feel soo much better :D
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1 year, 9 months ago (3 hours, 18 minutes after post)
It is nice to hear that there is a guy cares if he knocked up a girl , hehe.
I think you should try looking for the girls & ask them , it would be so hard i know .
i agree you sho travel back to the cities and check up o the girls. usually when this happens to the girl they keep it, out it up for adoption, get an aborton, or give it to family or friends to raise.
I know thats whats scaring me. I intend to go there in 2 months since I gotta plan out the whole trip it is pretty expensive but it’ll be worth it to clear my conscience. The thought that first of all it happened, a life suffered cause of my dumbness, and then on top of that that kid doesnt get its right is the worst thing I could’ve done. And on top of that, I ****** up my life too so if it didn’t happen and I find out I’ll be able to live with a clear conscience. But the only thought that scares me is what if im not able to find them for the next 10 years I would live with this burden on my chest, and then if it actually did happen 10 years later some kid comes up and blames me for messing there life. And they wouldn’t be wrong. :(
yea if any girl did get pregnate it would be better on the kid to know their dad and not have doubts and think their dad does not care about them when in reality their dad knows nothing about them
I agree thats whats worrying me. I don’t want to live life as in irresponsible person. It’s not just about the kid knowing their father, but theres ethical responsibilities too mainly financial.
hayy..i dont think u should be worried. if they did get preganant they either got an abortion or they would have tried to contact u. im sure ur ok. but even if they did have a kid and its urs. wut r u gunna do? u will never know. u have no idea wut their last names r or wut they look like. lol i think thatur fine though because when it comes to that girls would definitley contact the guy!! sooo dont worry!! hope that helps!! =-P
actually that is not true! not all girls are like that. many times girls get scared to contact the guy if they got pregnate b/c they are scared that the guy would flip out, abandon them or deny it. and most girls do prefer not to have abortions even in a situation like that!
Well to be honest, its a little different in my country. First of all the family pressure, they get married right away.. usually to that guy.
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