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I know what you mean its not always that its the telling the feelings part thats hard trust me its the finding the person u can trust and always trust and be comfrotable with if you find that person then it’ll just come out at first hard but then as the days go on it’ll be natural. You just gotta keep hope that you’ll find somebody to trust that is worth trusting.
I’m goin through a similar thing and i’m not necesarily “seein the light at the end of the tunnel” or any of that but I got my hope and i know i will eventually

It’s a hard thing to do, but see if you can star letting things out. If you don’t feel comfortable talking about the situation, try talking about how you feel. There is somebody out there who cares enough to listen, and when people listen, it’s easier to let things out.

I’ve had moments where I feel that way and I don’t know how or where to start, but I know that it does help to talk, even if I say nothing at all. Take care and feel better.

I see your heart prints all over help.com. Let me leave some here for you.♥♥♥

Sometimes life gets to heavy, so heavy that you feel the life being squashed right out of you and no one can see it but you, you ask for help but the words you speak are silent and the people you see are blind. You feel lost in the void un noticed and un missed and the only thing you can feel is the heart gripping pain of being so alone….. Thats just my take on the moment.
Everyone will have a different view, I don’t know why you feel the way you do but I do wish and hope that feeling goes soon and you will feel better.

I’m not sure but I think I feel the same a lot. You feel your going to explode and your spiraling down with no way to stop. I’ve only found this site a few days ago but I think it might be helping. Sometimes you just need to know there is someone, anyone out there.

As you put your hands in mine , let me be the one you pour out your soul to , lillies you have been here for so many and you have the courage to ask for help , you have always made me take a second look , a turn of my head , you will be fine . Someone with so much to offer can never be left out in the cold , their are way to many people pulling for you , hang in dear , it will get better………..RON.

everything is going to be ok

Cry then ,maybe a few tears , a cup of tea , a talk with us , or a closer friend , do what ever it takes to put your smile back on .

Hi, probably not much help but your not alone.

What was the last thing you saw that was your favorite colour?

Your post says so little yet so much at the same time. Whatever may have you down or burdened, step back for a bit, indulge in something that makes you happy so you aren’t thinking of the other things and enjoy yourself. You have to come first in your life ….. find something to cheer yourelf up & hopefully that’ll help you find ways to help yourself through the not so great times.

Lilies,
There is always time for someone like you. I am sorry you are feeling down, and there are lots of very kind and thoughtful things written above my comment, but I thought how sad that Lilies would think that I wouldn’t have time for her.

Of all the people on this site I have never seen an unkind word come from you, you are always thoughtful, sweet, kind and generous with your words of encouragement. You always seem to stay above any kind of nonsense and I admire you for that. I hope that you realize how cared for you are.

Whatever you are going through it will pass, and you will find your smile again!
Sending you thoughts of peace and love!
S

My point is to have you reflect on all of your favorite things and take notice of all things pleasant. Look for the things that make you smile. Acknowledge them when they happen. Find something simple to enjoy and enjoy it.

Email me if you want to talk… I am always here for you.

(((hugs))) Hi Sweetie!!! Hope you are feeling better by now????

One of the best things about us humans is our ability to bounce back from things. We can be totally wiped out one day, and on top of the world the next day. And that is a good thing. The downers don’t feel so good, but, when we come out of it, it surely does. Things tug at our emotions, especially when we are female. I think the guys maybe have it a bit easier in this dept., because we females are emotional, and we react to things that males don’t pay any attention to.

Also, since we are the one with the nurturing capabilities, we zero in on things more, and are very sensitive, therefore easily hurt. If someone hurts, we are the first to hurt with them. So, with all that going on, no wonder we sometimes have bad days. But, the good news is, this usually does not last very long, and pretty soon, we are back up and running again. And for this, the rest of the household is always glad, since, most things revolve around the woman of the household.

When things start to press in too close, and we begin to feel smothered, it is time to put down things and go for a walk in the woods, or by the beach, somewhere away from others, so that we can reflect and be alone, and renew our batteries, is a very good prescription. And feeling that we do not matter, is something that needs to be weeded out, and replaced with the thought that, Yes, I do matter, and Yes, I am worthwhile, and Yes, others do care about me, and Yes, it is ok to need help every now and then, and Yes, we are human because we do.

When we give out, we have to take time to renew ourselves, or else we will be running on empty, and that will get us parked on the side of the road, so to speak.
We have to learn how to take care of ourselves, and not run our batteries completely down. I don’t know what you are dealing with, but, I hope in some way that I was able to help, and I wish you the very best. (((hugs)) You are a very kind and gentle and loving spirit. Take care of yourself.

Blessings….

*** hug *** I’m here for you.

hang in there lilies! we’re all behind ya!! :O)

Is that smile making a attempt yet , hope so.

I believe you are trying lillies , I don’t think your one to stop trying ,or one to give up , at least the lillies I have seen on here for the last 8 months or so . This thing you must get done ,can myself or any other of these other people on here who care so much for you do anything specificly to help you accomplish it ? Just ask ? If at all possiable ,I’ll do it , and I’m sure I’m not the only one who wouldn’t mind going that extra step.

Lilies, I don’t know whats up, but I want you to know I’m here if you need to talk as are so many other people that care about you.

keep moving foward and know that i support you in what you are doing 100% and if u ever want to talk im here for you

*hugs lillies real tight*
i dont know you too well, but i know you are an amazing woman. you can do this, whatever it is!

Lili you are fine as long as I am with you lol…smile…! nothing worth crying for!!! :)

Hmm, I’m not good at encouragement out of context, but I know you’re a good person, I know you’re a strong person and you have a good head on your shoulders. You’re well able for whatever life throws at you, and don’t be afraid to confide in someone, sometimes saying it out loud is more help then receiving advice.

It is through the tears, that some expressed their yearnings…
It is through the screams, that some expressed their pains…
It is through the silence, that some expressed their anger…
Shan’t it be through words that lili express her feelings???

Lilies, I will tell you like I tell so many others once you can release those feelings and find words for them, you will have such a weight lifted. Getting the feelings into words and the words out of your mouth is a huge step. Release them. I remember I used to always say “I don’t know” when asked questions. I really did know how to express my feelings. I really did not know the feeling I was having. Part of it was due to having a numbness of feelings. Now I do have to analyze my feeling to figure out what I am truly feeling. It takes work. Your are a strong person. You will work it out. I am confident.

lilies, is that your true name?

It may sound weird, but when I can’t find the words to say how I feel, I make them up. Just string together sounds that sort represent how I feel.

Strange, but it seems to help.

And sometimes songs can say it best. Just let people know which parts specifically explain how you feel.

You said that crying some wont help much will it. Letting out the emotion that you feel can only help. Sometimes crying, even when your not sure what brought it on can really help. It doesnt serve to practically change anything, but emotions need to be released. There have been times when I’ve cried so hard, it hurts, but that helps, and that is good. Dont be afraid of that.

You say you want your smile back, it will come. Fill your time with things that give you hope. Each of us have at times felt this way, and have own own reasons as to why this is, and our own way to pick ourselves us. Find strength in the things that make you happy, that your enjoy doing, although you may at the moment have little motivation to do this. Just dont give up hope, as this is what will see you through these times.

You are such a caring and thoughful person, you have offered your guiding hand to many of us on this website, and I’m sure you extend that to your friends and family. Be proud of the person that you are, and except that everybody needs a guiding hand and support, no matter where that comes from. Take comfort in knowing that there will always be people available to be a listening ear, all you have to do is ask.

Hugs xxxx

Big Hugs Ace! You hang in there! I know sometimes it can be hard and almost impossible to see the way forward but you just have to keep plodding along. You’ll get there. Keep smiling! xx

yo, try not to let life’s troubles drag you down, its always going to be a pain in the a** sooner or later, always comes along. but everybody has to deal with it, hang in there and fight through it.