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what if all you are is a drag on the world because

of your physical limitations and no doctor can help with the constant pain.yes i have kids and a wife but I feel she and the kids would be better off without me.I wake up in pain and fall asleep in pain.is this what life is really about?

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Mr. Peterson offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

Don’t ever say that again! Your wife and children love you and no matter what your condition is, they will stand by you until the very end. You are not a burden to them. If not for yourself then for your family, keep on going and live life the best you can. Medication can help the physical pain but only you can help with mental pain.

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AKITHMA offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 354 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 hour, 56 minutes after post)

MARRIED FOR BETTER OR WORSE IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH,im sure your wife understood the vowels ,sometimes its a rough ride down the river ,just dont rock the boat and make it worse,stay healthy in the mind at least,,thats the part she fell in love with.thats the part she can still have

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GB | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 hours, 55 minutes after post)

try asking your wife and kids if they feel you are a drag, and i am sure thats not what you are gonna hear

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GB | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

oh and try some pain relief, i have found that the best pain relief in the world is hugs, i think some from your children would probably do the trick

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (5 hours, 24 minutes after post)

your wife and kids probably love you more than you even know, appreciate the life you built with them thus far and look forward to the many years ahead you’ll spend with them.

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