I train people how to use their computers for a living, and have for about 13 years now.
Here’s the thing a lot of people don’t realize: kids tend to be very *comfortable* with the computer, and they use it very confidently, but it doesn’t mean they know what they’re doing.
You’d be amazed at how poorly a lot of kids use their computers; they just look like they know what they’re doing, but often they make worse mistakes than people over 40 who didn’t grow up with computers because the over-40s tend to be more cautious, more and more so as you get into older age groups like 60s and 70s.
While seniors tend to be way more cautious and apprehensive than they probably need to be, the kids are just as bad in the opposite way — careless and running headlong into trouble because they think they know it all.
I can tell you as someone who has made his living training people on computers, repairing them, and fixing messes caused by users, just because your kids seem like they know what they’re doing, don’t assume they’re experts.
The fact is, they may be better than you, but it’s because of their mental attitude more than anything else.
There’s a good article on this very thing. You should be able to find it if you Google the phrase:
a simple secret to improving your computer skills
Gives some good tips about helping get the right attitude to make it easier to learn the computer, plus tips on avoiding problems when you do. And it’s a real easy, fun read.
Good luck, and remember not to beat yourself up over it. :)