life help: my life is **** i want to kill myself and im only 23 years old i have lost my wife she cheated on me with 4 blokes at the same time. - Help.com

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You need to go to a doctor first of all to get medical help. Then they can refer you to a counciller or someone who you can talk to about these problems in lots of detail and they can help you to get back on your feet.

Sometimes in life we all get the sh!t deal. But you gotta pick yourself back up. Killing yourself is not the answer, i have been in the same situation where i have attempted suicide. Believe me, things get bad and you want to give up. But things CAN only get better. You just have to hold on and sort your life out in the meantime.

Write all the things down on a piece of paper that you want. then make a plan for each one of how you are either going to a, get it. or b, deal with not having what you want.

Realistically your boys need you. And they need you alive not dead.

you really need to get yourself some help and support. You sound like you are going through the most terrible time, but i do agree with RaverBarbie in that your boys do need their dad, and they need him alive fit and well. Think of them and think how much they will need to have you around throughout their lives, you have so much to live for and i know that you may not feel like that at the moment but you MUST try and cling onto your life, and the first step back to a normal life is admitting you need help, which you have done by posting on here. That must have taken you alot of courage and you need to use this and move forward with your life, not give up on yourself and more important than that, dont give up on your boys.

I hope you have the courage to seek the help and support to turn your life around.
My thoughts are with you xx

Life doesn’t always turn out as we would hope… however, to a large extent we are masters of our own destiny… you can choose to continue to travel down the path you believe is inevitable or you can choose to take the next fork in the road (travel a different path) even if its hard.. and even if it means starting over and leaving behind familiar surrounds and people… a new path is always difficult at first, but its like wearing in a new pair of shoes… it get more comfortable as we progress. You happiness is not dependent on another person, or place… the capacity for contentment resides within you… accept this and begin to make progress… ask for help… from someone you trust and believe in… find that person - it will be worth the effort - you are worth the effort… trust me.

Glad to be of help… if you need anything further just ask :)

Death is not the answer life is. As much as it hurts you cant just think of yourself you have two kids and they will need a good father to guide them thru life. Life is a ***** but all you can do is get in your knees pray and ask god for help after that sleep over it and wake up a new man get 2 jobs do some sort of sport or activity get your mind busy and start working on getting your kids (but for that you need a steady jod a steady place and your head in your shoulders.:)
Good luck!!!!

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Ps2mic,

You want to kill yourself because you don’t want to fight for life! You want to give up because the Lion is in the middle of the road! Begin making a Life Plan! It’s just like a Business Plan but it details the steps you’re going to take to rebuild your life! Step by step to win your family back or be supportive.

As long as you’ve awaken in the morning, you have another chance to get it right. The only time you don’t have a chance is when you’re pushing up daisies. At 23, there’s plenty of “Ooops!” time in the Bank! I know people whom had to start their entire life all over at 50 years old and made it!!! So 50 minus 23 gives you 27 years to get it right! Could you get it together with-in that time frame? NOT! I think in 5 years or less depending on your determination and persistence!! So let’s hold 22 years in Reserve for now but be comforted that time is on your side!

First things first! Get a sheet of paper out. Begin writing your Life Plan for jump starting your life. It is obvious you’re gonna need some money. So you’re a Security Guard. Use your imagination. Most people use their imagination for fantasies but your imagination is a lot more powerful then that! I will demonstrate. First order of business. You need to maximize your earnings input. How? Well, as a Security Guard, you can go to large companies with a business card (on your days off) and solicit business for your company.

When you land a big fish or have a lead to a big fish, ask the company to promote you to site supervisor for higher pay! All companies accept new business and will reward you for bringing in new business. In fact, if you’re good at sales, I would add an additional sales position to the ticket. You have all the time in the world! It must be a commodity that’s high in demand and moves quickly. Begin using your Computer and set up some business affiliate blogs online. Have that machine do some work around the clock for you! Now, you have 3 income streams.

Next, I know you have most likely asked your wife to forgive you and she most likely said something to the effect of taking a long walk on a short Pier. Fine! That’s because you’re in a weak position. You must transmit a strong position. That being, obtaining a new Flat, new Car and you know what, paying her a stipend to support your kids with NO ATTITUDE! Women look for attitude! Poor attitude means looser great attitude means Winner, Mover-Shaker, a Man’s Man!

To Be Continued………….

Continuing………

Now if you’re the one whom won’t return home when asked, that’s a horse of a different color.

Forget and Forgive about the affair! Be strong in that too! I know you feel violated and robbed of relationship integrity however, if you can manage to nip that in the bud ….you can well be on your way back to having a family again. If she doesn’t want to return (very temporal - time changes everything)be patient and go on with your life KNOWING…..you will always have a relationship with your children. If she prevents it, she will not be able to keep them away at 18!! By then, you should have a Castle for them to come to and spend a great deal of time catching up! But and if you stay strong, giving (generously to her) drop what you’re doing when she calls for help and beat feet over there to help her out…..you’ll get a phone call one day asking you to come over….and stay. It is imperative, to become a Hero to her all over again! Deep inside, she wants you back! All women want their boys and daughters to know their father. I don’t know why men don’t believe this but it’s true! But she must see a different……you! Because the “Ole You” is a………you know the rest of the story or “saying”!

One additional painful task you must perform is this……during this proving stage…..don’t go out and get another girl friend! That isn’t showing her you miss her and want her back!!! Don’t get another girl pregnant or you can kiss this part of your Life Plan good-bye! I know, I know, sitting up in a new flat lonely as the dickens…….the price you should be glad to pay for the opportunity of reuniting with the Love of Your Life and Your Children!

Be Disciplined! Be Structured! Order yourself Straight, Cut and Squared Away! Use the tears to water the plants! The minute that just slipped by is gone forever! It will never come back! It’s time to use time in a productive way!

You’ve got 27 years to get it right! If you collected a penny everyday and compound it, you’ll be a Millionaire in 27 years! That’s how much time is on your side and it can fix things if you ride the crest!

I hope the best for you!

InfoPRO
P.S. Look in the mirror and say, “Hey you, I forgive you for messing things up! Now it’s time to go to work and make things right again!”

u must forgive yourself! no if’s an’s or but’s!

Enthusiasm can only be aroused by two things: first, an ideal which takes the imagination by storm, and second, a definite, intelligible plan for carrying that ideal into practice.

-Arnold Toynbee

Why where you sent to prison? Is that why you wife cheated on you and took the kids?

I it hurts to lose someone you love.

timewaveproduction wrote:
I say **** it, im with you. Life is pain, why prolong it. For a moment or two of happiness. **** that, lets jump off a building together!!!!!!!!!!!

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