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[{Sweet ;; Kisses}]
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He said i love you to another girl.

I logged into msn and all of a sudden this girl starts saying stuff about my boyfriend saying leave him alone he is mine.I have been with him for 7 months now and she has only known him for about a week over msn.she hasnt even met him !!:S .So I spoke to him about it and i said why did u tell her you loved her??She didnt even tell me he said that but i caught him out and he said it was to shut her up.what kind of guy said i love you to shut a girl up??

what should i do?

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1 year, 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

i no it sounds really stupid but i no of a lot of people who have done that but that doesnt make any excuses. to me it just makes it seem like he isnt as commited as he claims to be…

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kplummer8 offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

You need to let him know that that is unacceptable. It’s like this, if he will simply tell a girl he loves her to shut her up, then if he tells you that he loves you, how will you know if it’s true or just a fleeting emotion. This is a crazy time for you I am sure, and if you are feeling all different sorts of emotions then that is normal too, but somehow you must lift yourself up out of the pain and realize, that if he is going to wander then let him get to wandering now before it gets any further along. Just my opinion, but even though I have never met you, I know that womankind deserves men that will step up to the plate. No matter what your age is, you need to learn young that you can do far better than a man who spouts off whatever he feels to whoever he feels like spouting it off to. Good luck, and stay true to yourself first.

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[{Sweet ;; Kisses}] offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Belmont, 04, AU | 1 year, 9 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Thankyou You have really helped me realise that he is a twat LOL. xx

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tihesa71 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Carson City, NV, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

I agree you must value yourself. If the people around you do not value you and act disrespectful, you must make a stand. You are the only self you have, do not let anyone make you feel unimportant or insignifigant. Love yourself and know you are loveable, no matter what you’ve been through, love yourself. You are really all you have when it comes down to it. Try putting yourself out of the equation. If it was your little sister or best friend, what would your advise be? You must believe that you are loveable to be loved. If not losers with keep popping up in your life to try to bring you down.

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aeroflychi offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (6 hours, 26 minutes after post)

tell that foo he crazy for tellin another girl he loves her. snap your fingers and kick him in the shin ahaha jk. yes he is a twat.

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sarah_hafne offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Des Moines, IA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

sounds like my boyfriend. he told a girl she was hott because he wanted her to think he was a ‘nice guy’. but chew him out and if he wants to be with you he’ll cut it out

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Coalesce offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

Meh, my personal opinion has always been to cut ‘em loose after the first infidelity… sure he didn’t cheat or anything, but what does that really say about him or how he feels about you? I may not believe in soulmates but I certainly believe that two people can love eachother unfailingly… and he just failed you.

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shatteredxdream offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

my boyfriend told a girl he loved her tonight and lied to me about it. I just ******* him out.

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Coalesce offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 2 days ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

Did you break up with him too? I hope so.

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