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Help!

!!!!!!!!!!
I want to know why my man constantly wants to say I have an attitude when I don’t. I swear that he is just trying to pick a fight. I offer suggestions to him and he blows up at me and threatens to leave. WTF?

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Jinx 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

maybe he’s trying to make you break up with him?
I know this may seem harsh. but I used to be like that
If I started to feel like I don’t love the person I am with so I would try to make it seem like they didn’t want to be with me so I wouldnt be the one to break up with them
Just talk to him about it
Ask him if what he wants is a break

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bebegunn 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Speak to him while being completely laid-back, and ask him to really get down to business and give you specific examples of your “attitude problem”. Don’t overreact, just give him the opportunity to explain what he’s seeing. Maybe it’s true, maybe it’s not true, it doesn’t matter because whatever it is, it’s causing a problem in your relationship, and neither one of you is going to be happy until he fesses up and explains himself in detail. Like the person who posted before me, it very well could be that he is trying to turn things around on you. I’ve actually done this (yeah, horrible but true.) If I’m doing something maybe I know is wrong, and I know I’ve been a real pain in the *** lately, I’ll turn it around and make it out like it’s the other persons fault. Maybe he does want a break. Maybe he’s feeling a little guilty about something (not to make you freak out.), or, hell, maybe your attitude does need a readjustment. Talk it out. Peace!

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