Love help: i don’t want people to know this is me lol… - Help.com

tell your girlfriend. But dont worry about it. If you trust your girlfriend then just leave it at that. and she wont do anything.

its up to your girlfriend to be faithful and loyal all you can do is trust her. but you should probably tell her.

cheers raver
um suppose twas my fault didn’t exactly make it clear lol
um they asked my g/f out to her lk on tx meaning my g/f told me!
and i trust her
just worried at what she gna do x

If you trust her you have nothing to worry about.

aaa suppose so

Trust ur girlfriend

i just worried bot wat sh’ll do
cuz i don’t want her to get hurt
does it sound like i don’t trust her?

How is she going to get hurt? The guy who asked her out would be the one to get hurt, even though he had no right to ask her out, since he knows she is going out with you.

Please tell her but don’t push her too hard. I was sincerely in love but the guy was going so insane he pushed me away. All he had to do was relax and it would have been what he wished.

she askin me on advice what to do

why are you worried about what your girlfriend is going to do? Do you have any reason to doubt her faithfulness to you? & that mutual “friend” isn’t a very good friend now is he? If he was a true friend to any of you, he would have never put you guys in that situation (especially if he knows how you two feel about each other). I think you need to ask yourself why you’re doubting your girlfriend. Ask yourself if you have a valid reason for doing so. If not, then you really have nothing to worry about.. except maybe reevaluating who your friends are. I think you guys should deal with the situation as a unit- like a strong couple would do. & decide about what to do w. your “friend” together also. It was wrong of him to expect her to keep a secret like that from you.

i don’t really think our friend expected it to be kept a sectret cuz we really close n tell each other everything .

ma g/f said not to let on that i knew tho so the friend don’t know that i know…. n they are a friend i know it don’t sound like it but there like really close n stuff….. i hate them for puttin us in this position but i luv them cuz they my friend
xx

ur girlfriend sounds like ur own true friend. what ur gf does is her own decision and if she chooses to cheat she out herself in the awkward situation, not you.
dont u feel u deserve someone who will treat u with respect?

any way you slice it… if your friend wanted your girlfriend to cheat on you… it’s wrong. period. I think you need to acknowledge that. & if your friend didn’t expect it to be kept a secret.. why would you pretend that you don’t know about it?

I think you should talk to your friend about it.

If your friend was a decent one, they wouldn’t want your girlfriend to cheat on you. they would want what is best for you both as a couple. and to do what he did is wrong.

I don’t think you should consider this person a friend anymore.

yep but u can’t help the way u feel n my friend just felt sumfin ma g/f n i don’t think u can help that….

srox wrote:
.. why would you pretend that you don’t know about it?

to not make it awarkd btwn us n it was valtines day lol

lol, so your friend wanted your girlfirend to cheat on you on valentines day of all days? I really don’t think that’s a good friend. But you and your girlfriend seem set on keeping this person in your lives, so in that case I suppose you should have everything out in the open. Talk about it… secrets will feed the negativity of this all. If you want to try and keep this friendship (although I wouldn’t be inclined to do so personally- but I respect your choice) then you guys should talk about it and deal with the problem now, to keep it from further damaging your relationships with each other in the future. Sometimes you like or love people, and they don’t like or love you back. Sometimes, you fall in love with a person who is unavailable (like your friend).. You have to be mature enough to let things go sometimes. I think you’re friend has to grow up a bit & learn to deal with unrequitted love. People don’t always get what they want and it doesn’t give him/her the right to try and damage the relationship between two of his/her closest friends. Your friend should want you and your girlfriend to be happy & not get in the way of your happiness! Good Luck.

and yes, people may not always be able to help how they feel… but they CAN always help how they ACT. & how your friend acted was wrong. Your friend had control of his/her actions.

thanks srox
i’ll talk to my friend
ur a grest help xx

soz ment great! xx

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anyone know what words i should use to confort my friend about it??

without being too mean possibly lol xx