Month help: My mom won’t stop asking me if i got my period this month. - Help.com

that sounds intimidating.
this is ur personal life.
Do the same back to her and see if she likes it.

Is there a reason she keeps asking ? Maybe she suspects you may be pregnant and is worried about you ?

Florence1987 wrote:
that sounds intimidating.
this is ur personal life.
Do the same back to her and see if she likes it.

my mom is old and shes stopped getting her period

Mezz wrote:
Is there a reason she keeps asking ? Maybe she suspects you may be pregnant and is worried about you ?

my mom wont let me date and she trusts me not to

Oh…. Umm… Thats a hard one then. Maybe you need to ask her why she keeps asking ? Theres something prompting her to keep asking.

Do you have a boyfriend right now? If so, she might be concerned now that you’re able to become pregnant that you and your boyfriend might not be careful. If you don’t have a boyfriend, she might be worried that you DO have one annd aren’t telling her!If thats not the case, then she might be worried about you having an irregualr cycle. If there is a history of menstral issues in your family, she might be worried that you’ll experience them, too. If THATS not it, maybe she’s having some sort of control issues. You’re growing up and are now considered (physically) to be a woman. She might be having issues over feelings that she’s losing her little girl.
Have you told her that it makes you really uncomfortable that she won’t stop asking?
I’m inclined to agree with Mezz..try asking her personal questions and see how she likes it

Mezz wrote:
Oh…. Umm… Thats a hard one then. Maybe you need to ask her why she keeps asking ? Theres something prompting her to keep asking.

she sez “just asking”

Moogan wrote:
Do you have a boyfriend right now? If so, she might be concerned now that you’re able to become pregnant that you and your boyfriend might not be careful. If you don’t have a boyfriend, she might be worried that you DO have one annd aren’t telling her!If thats not the case, then she might be worried about you having an irregualr cycle. If there is a history of menstral issues in your family, she might be worried that you’ll experience them, too. If THATS not it, maybe she’s having some sort of control issues. You’re growing up and are now considered (physically) to be a woman. She might be having issues over feelings that she’s losing her little girl.Have you told her that it makes you really uncomfortable that she won’t stop asking?I’m inclined to agree with Mezz..try asking her personal questions and see how she likes it

i repeat: she wont let me date, and she trusts me.

im adopted, but i have a compllete history and theres no irregularity in that stuff.

ive asked her to stop she wont

If shes asking just for the sake of asking, you might want to try telling her to rspect your privacy and personal boundries. Tell her that she is making you feel uncomfortable and you would like her to stop. If she refuses to stop, then just refuse to answer her question. You don’t have to be rude, just say “that is a person question that I am not comfortable with you asking. I will not answer that question again.”

Moogan wrote:
If shes asking just for the sake of asking, you might want to try telling her to rspect your privacy and personal boundries. Tell her that she is making you feel uncomfortable and you would like her to stop. If she refuses to stop, then just refuse to answer her question. You don’t have to be rude, just say “that is a person question that I am not comfortable with you asking. I will not answer that question again.”

been there tried that wasnt able to get the tshirt tho

She can’t get mad at you, in all fairness, for refusing to discuss your menstral cycle with her.
What happens when you refuse to answer the question?

Moogan wrote:
She can’t get mad at you, in all fairness, for refusing to discuss your menstral cycle with her.
What happens when you refuse to answer the question?

she gets p***** off ignores me wont talk to me

period envy? could there be such a thing?

she sounds overprotective. ive have a mum who has been difficult in that sort of respect.
its well annoying. how old are you?

Well, you could always try:

Mom: “Have you had your period this month daughter?”
You: “Have you had a bowel movement today mother?”

She might take the hint that way *lol*

Seriously, if she gets mad thats not your fault nor your problem. She’s being immature to act that way. It is YOUR body and your menstral cycle. Unless she wants to start having it for you, then she really has no business worrying about it.

Florence1987 wrote:
she sounds overprotective. ive have a mum who has been difficult in that sort of respect.
its well annoying. how old are you?

teens

Angel (NO alex) wrote:

Florence1987 wrote:
she sounds overprotective. ive have a mum who has been difficult in that sort of respect.its well annoying. how old are you?

teens

im guessing that becuz anon still ives with her mom but maybe 20s 30s?

Angel (NO alex) wrote:

Angel (NO alex) wrote:

Florence1987 wrote:
she sounds overprotective. ive have a mum who has been difficult in that sort of respect.its well annoying. how old are you?

teens

im guessing that becuz anon still ives with her mom but maybe 20s 30s?

so ur not the person who wrote the post?

Or you could always try telling her that you’ve decided to stop having a period altogther so she might as well stop asking. *lol*

wouldn’t that be like saying she’s on birth control?

Not necessarily, I meant it in a more flippant sort of way *lol*