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I started dating this guy who has a 9 month old daughter about 3 months ago.

his ex lives at home with her parents and her twin sister who has 2 kids that she doesnt take care of. his ex never wants to take her daughter. she is supposed to take her on her days off but she always ends up trying to get ahold of my boyfriend wanting him to take her for a while or she will drop the baby off with one of his family member for the night so she can go out and she even went as far as taking the baby to a party with her when she couldnt find anyone to take her. i have a problem with this cause its not right. and his mother is best friend with his ex. she has been cold to me to say the least when im around and i post a blog about how i was feeling and she read it and sent me a message and went off on me. she even went as far as to come over to my boyfriends house to confront me about it. its causing alot of stress between my boyfriend and i. im irritable stressed moody and i need help dealing with it.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 hours, 20 minutes after post)

you have to keep record of what is going on… keep dates and times of every event.. especially when the mother refuses to keep her daughter for her visits… then go to court and get custody of this child… she is irresponsible… as for the mother… this is not her business.. what is between you and your boyfriend is your business.. NOT HERS… so she needs to keep her nose out of the situation… and if she reads this… then ill tell this to her… BUTT OUT!!!! i wish you luck hun… may you and your boyfriend choose the people in your lives who will help make a difference for the good… not those who are trouble making idiots…

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