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I’m in a dark place and need some advice…

I’m 22, need money despretly, like this guys who doesn’t seem to like me, I have him stuck in my head and he doesn’t seem to wanna leave, I don’t like my job, but I can’t just quit, I wanna move away and change my major in college, I don’t know what to do…I feel a depression coming on…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Things will turn out. Don’t know how long, but they will. Hang in there. And a couple of those things you may be able to change. Can you look for a new job? Have you got any proof he doesn’t like you? Is it possible to change your major? If you really want to change it, you’ll be able to find a way. Keep thinking for ideas, and don’t worry about the things you can’t change.

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1 year, 9 months ago (1 day after post)

well, im on a student visa which means i have to be a full time student and all those classes i wanna change to are on the same day at the same time, only in the spring semester…
the guy seems to like me, but hes living far away and says he doesnt want a relationship right now…
i cant find a new job, cuz im on a student visa i shouldnt even have this one…
and i cant move away from here closer to my friends and the guy because im on a student visa and have to live with the family who sponsors me, by the time im getting out of this i have to leave back to where i come from, away from my friends and the guy…

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