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How did you know when it was time to euthanize your senior cat?

I have a cat that is 15 years old and has gradually been vomiting more and more frequently, until now it seems like she vomits up everything she eats. Her brother was diagnosed with kidney failure and, being littermates I imagine she has the same. I know you need a vet to tell you for sure, to do tests etc. but we don’t really have a lot of money (my dad just lost his job) and I’m curious to hear other people’s experiences with this problem and what the result was.

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Ah, before I read this post and just saw the title, I was thinking: “when he started throwing up everything I gave him.”
Euthanation is very often the more humane route to take :( It’s definitely not a nice feeling to throw up all the time.

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li.mony offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Yeah, my dog had to be put down this summer for an illness. It’s so hard, but you have to do what’s best by them.

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

On the other hand, could it be a passing sickness? I had a cat but unfortunately don’t know a lot about their health: maybe it’s food poisoning or a fever? Then again, 15 is quite a ripe age.

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ÑÌnJÅ_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

after your cat throws up does it go and eat grass?

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li.mony offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

No, she’s an indoor cat.

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Times' gone mad offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Eating grass causes vomiting, as does hair.

Kidney failure means that they can’t process out the toxins and slowly are poisioned by impurities in their own bodies. It’s really sad and painful, from what I understand. It’s a hard call, and I don’t know what to tell you—do you have a family vet, you might be able to explain it to them, don’t have a lot of money and want to do what’s best for your pet—see what they advise. Any good doctor should be clear and upfront with you.

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Jinx offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

honestly, if you don’t want to do the tests, there is no way to tell if she can be cured.
best thing to do is put it down and let her stop suffering.
I know it’s hard, i work at a vet and i know that its really hard to deal with, but it’s for the best, sorry for the pain it causes you…

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ÑÌnJÅ_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Do you give her enuff water to drink? cause she could be dehydrated but only a vet can tell you if its a major problem

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li.mony offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

It’s not that we don’t want to, we’ll be lucky if we can make rent this month, let alone buy food, let alone pay the electric bill, etc.

I just don’t want to do it too soon.. or too late.. you know?

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Florie offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 272 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 42 minutes after post)

This is the hard part: when to do it. But having sent 3 cats on, over the last few years, I’ve decided not to do it again, but let them die naturally. It’s nothing to be afraid of. They go into a state and you can tell it’s going to happen soon. I think they start leaving their body before we even realize it. From now on I’ll only do it if I know they are in pain. It is sad. They are as much of a “force” as human beings are! My sympathies. Consider interviewing some mobile vets, so you don’t have to take your kitty to the place. But make sure the vets are quiet vets.

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whitelily offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (20 hours, 21 minutes after post)

My cat had kidney failure and we had her put to sleep. We left it too late as it wasn’t fair to keep her alive as she was suffering so much but we didn’t want to lose her although we could tell she was in pain. 15 is a really good age for a cat and its better to have it done quickly then to let your cat keep on suffering intil the end.

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Metairie, LA, US | 9 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I am taking me beloved cat Sparky in today for what probably will be his final visit to the vet. I will have the vet examine him and give me his recommendation. I trust this compassionate man to offer the proper advice.

Sparky stopped eating entirely a couple of days ago, has not drunk for several days, has no luck using the litter box, and is having difficulty walking. So far he has not been incontinent as his late companion cat became before she passed away.

I am agonized now about this appointment only two hours away, but I can’t stand seeing him stumble around and waste away. It’s tough, but you know when it’s time, though there are no evident signs of acute pain.

I have had the pleasure of Sparky’s company for eighteen years, one month, and nine days. May he, and your cat, find rest now.

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whitelily offline Verified User (9 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

aaawwwwwwww. I’m sorry

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li.mony offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Milwaukee, WI, US | 4 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

Just an update… We did end up putting her to sleep. When we took her in, they said her kidneys were fine, and that it was probably cancer, but it would cost a lot of money to find out for sure and then they wouldn’t really be able to do anything anyway. The vet strongly recommended euthanization, and I held her in my arms while it was done.

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