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i don’t think so. you looked to her for help, and she decided to not be/ be as close friends with you. it is her fault that you aren’t close… but as for her losing friends… everyone loses friends, she is probably just noticing it more now that she is in her beginning teens… don’t feel bad.

No, u werent wrong because u were going through a rough time and that girl was getting put on the spot. i understand what u did and its ok, u shouldnt feel bad at all it was a genuine thing to do. if shes angry than let her be. my grandfather passed away resently and i still cant handel that everyone is crying her anger is because death is a hard thing too deak with, even if she didnt even know the guy. i lash out when my family cries bcuz i want to move on, its hard, long, and painful process.

nahnah198 wrote:
Ok hold on do u want to tell me the story so I can give u advice cus Im a little lost here???/

just read ot, its up there.

serra is sxcii.. lol wrote:
so its really in a way more my fault then hers for telling her… like she helped me with sum things but then she just got hasseled… i luv her to death… she is like an aswome grl but i feelm realii bad for telling her… but then i feel upset that shes treating me like **** now… like once again i understand that if i got told that som1s bestfrined killed themselves and then i ot told that they lied i would be angry… omg i just answered my own question lol its amazing how if u thin about it u figure it out… i gotta feel what its like in her position i gotta understand that if i got lied to about suicide that i wul feel realii angry… although i didnt lie she still thinks i did like its hard to say i lied about my bestfriends suicide dont get me wrong but hes gone now … btw how cute was he hes ma avatar… lol anyways so yea i just gotta put my fett in her shoes … thanks every1 for the help…

yes he is cute. lol but i undestand how she can b mad, yes that is kinda harsh but u were protectin her, shell com around. i promise.

nahnah, don’t worry, he answered his own question :)

if i were u and i told ma freind about it and then realized she was in a hard time, i prolly wouldnt have done that but i understand y u did. the only reason i wouldnt is bcuz if she is greeving and stuff she wouldnt take it seriously she would think that u were trying to be funny, which it isnt. so thats porlly y she is amd at u.

serra is sxcii.. lol wrote:
lol i am a girl

OMZGAH IM SORRY!!!!

oh, well maybe she went throu a time like that and stuff u need o find out Y she is mad and then u can fix it

yea that is she prolly thought about thattime. i know i cant tlk about stuff like that at llbcuz of it so hat could have something to do with it. and it ok shell forget aboutover time but it nnite take a while.