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Hi, i’m 17…

..i have a girlfriend, this makes me a lesbian(but that’s somewhat irrelevant)…..i haven’t expiremented with men, nor do i want to(ew)…..my girlfriend however who is 16 and a “pansexual” i hate that word……has fooled around with a man, but hasn’t had sex with a man, now….i don’t really care if she wants to have like a one night stand(as long as i know and approve of the guy), i just am afraid that, she’s not going to like me after if she does, and i know that maybe i shouldn’t let her do something like that, but i’m in love with her and i don’t want to lose her, so it feels like, either way i could lose her…..if i let her she might like the guy she had sex with, but if i don’t let her she might break up with me because she’s curious…….so what do i do??

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ReddyLee offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Washington, DC, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (18 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Let her do what she wants to do or feel she needs to do. At your age, (of course, no one wants to hear this at 17) it is likely that your love will not be the only love of your life. That isn’t to say your love isn’t real, as I’m sure it is, or you wouldn’t mention it, but that if it is strong enough to work, you’ll be fine in the end. You can’t put a limitation on your girlfriend, just as I’m sure you wouldn’t want one on you! :)

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helen offline Unverified User #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

tell her its ok, then go do it w/a random guy. Seriously = girl+guy feels way better than girl+girl

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letst offline Unverified User #
Carleton, U2, GB | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

The physical sensations you get from a guy are rather different that those you get from a girl. But the connection you have with her, be it physical, emotional or whatever should keep her coming home to you.

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 2 days ago (9 months after post)

Let her have some cock. She won’t want you anymore, but there ain’t **** you can do about it. Strap-ons ain’t nothin compared to the real thing. She wont wana come back

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