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It feels like I am fighting a battle I can’t win


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nirvash offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

What is opposing you?

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Please-put on-pants. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
Pahala, HI, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Remember the old motto
“you enemies greastest weakness is your greatest strength.”
Work to your strengths,and you will never lose a battle right?=)

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cobra7 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Townville, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

No respect from my family. I set rules and the wife tells them to break them

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cobra7 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Townville, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Wife lets the kids run the house. The thing is 2 of them are moved out and one still here that should be on his own

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cobra7 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Townville, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

But can you win a battle with all odds against you and you are on your own?

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Please-put on-pants. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
Pahala, HI, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Duh,that what underdogs are all about right?
I cant give you any advice on family control though,luckily i myself have yet to squeeze out younglings.

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cobra7 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Townville, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Thanks anyway

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cobra7 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Townville, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Just wanted to vent

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

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{Felicity} online Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 124 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 25 minutes after post)

If the things that she lets them do are unsafe,unclean etc..Get help asap.or you will be responsible also when/if something were to happen.It’s a matter of control .Find out why she does this,make her aware of how it is unhealthy to the kid(s) ,whether it be mentally,physically,emotionally or spiritually.And by her behavior,she is hurting them and you.Don’t give in or give up please,our children NEED their parents desperately.

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2Hazel offline Verified User (8 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

Just talk with her and get in her face a little. (wife) Tell the kid your opinion on his choises.

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