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hey i’m sorry to hear that…
my g-ma was diagnosed with breast cancer. she lost both breasts. good news was 1) she survived & 2) she was able to sue her doctor, because he repeatedly missed the cancer at every routine checkup. she won A LOT of money.

anyway, like i said, she survived. many survive & therapies continue to get better for cancer patients.

i hope YOU’RE okay tho. it’s not easy being a cancer relation.

thank you for your support and congrats on suval and money
im find its my mom and aunt

There is a lot of people that are going through what you are right now. I have gone through this b4 too. I just hope that you are fully comitted to supporting your mother throughout this ordeal. Its tough but if she has someone standing beside her the whole way through, it will make it easier on her and it will strengthen your relationship as well. My Nana survived breast cancer, many people do, the support throughout is the most important. There are many activities i join in like the Run for the Cure it is a great event to paticipate in and you can talk to many people about this disease. This is the website.
www.cibcrunforthecure.com

i am fully supporting her i hold her when she is sad i encourage her with words
i tell her she is beautiful now and that it wont change
though i am only 15 and my dad (divorced) i have to twist his arm to let me take off school so i can be ther for the surgery to make sure she doesnt drink while she is on meds- i need to be there i am the only responsible one and i dont know what to do though she has so many question she needs answered and because i live an hour away from her its hard for me to make to her appontment especially since i cant drive yet, but in the beginnig she was missing all the appointments and i had to call her before an after to make sure she made it to them. i feel so bad for her but want to slap her at the same time , she says that she might not do anything about it to see how it all plays out

Doing nothing is not the answer, she is just sad. It’s a lot of work and i’m glad you are trying so hard to help her out. You just have to keep it up. Even just phone calls to keep her spirits up, anything is good. She will thank you in the end, believe me. Good Job! :)

well im not doing nothing and its not the matter wether or not she apprieciates it
she wont she is to drunk have the time to care but thats not the matter i want her to take responsibity to go to her doctors and to make a decision, i want her to get better and i dont just mean with the cancer