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OKKKAY, I’m a girl who today was asked out on a date by one of my guyfriends.

I am not interested in him in any way other than friendship, and if I had sent off any signals, they were totally unintentional (maybe him giving me the box of chocolates on Valentine’s should have raised red flags). I need to find a way to resolve this situation without compromising our friendship. I have lost too many friends in the past and do not wish to lose him.

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Please-put on-pants. offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
Pahala, HI, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Just tell him you dont think of him that way,but at the same time try not to crush his gonads= ) maybe say you think hes cute buty he isnt who you are lookign for right now?

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x0x_beb offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Toronto, ON, CA | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

you need to talk to him about the way you feel. and that being friends is better. if he asked you out on a date be like oh is it alright if i bring a friend along and you bring a friend along to make it a double date instead of it being alone. make it a casual thing. nothing more. good luck.

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 56 minutes after post)

I think you need to calmly rationally talk to this friend and explain how much he matters to you and tell him that he means to much to you to take the chance to ruin your friendship. If he is a real friend he will understand!

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