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so, i hate my home life, my mom thinks i hate her,

even though i don’t, she’s constantly complaining about how my dad shouldn’t eat so much and how he doesn’t care, and how she hates where we live, and tonight she was all do you want me to move, and i said go ahead, and she’s like that’s not what i asked, and i said yes, because….well she makes everyone miserable anyway, i know i don’t like her, and my friends are always oh your mom is so nice and whatever, and you know what…..no she’s not that’s great, she doesn’t understand anything, she sits on her *** all day at work, and she complains about my dad eating and i said so don’t buy cake then, and my dad is all that’s not what it’s about, but really it is, if the cake was not bought my dad couldn’t eat it, if we bought healthier food yeah so, my dad would eat just as much, but it’d be good for him, and that’s better than cake right? and i just can’t wait till next year, i’m moving out, i’ll be 18 by october, yeah i’ll still be in highschool but i can do it…..i basically do it now, i never go downstairs….my life is harder than even some adults i know, i’ve been told it by other adults……and RAWRRRR, i’m just sick of it, and sometimes i just want it all to go away…….and to just be me and real and GRAH……i think i’ll sneak out tomorrow, and i’ll leave a note and i’ll chill with friends for a while…….i just can’t handle the **** house anymore

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Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

hm i dunno what to say

Geek10 #
US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Why anger happy people?
If you’re upset about the things that happen if your life, YOU DO HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE THEM. The fact is one human can almost conquer the world, being in the right position in the right time(possibly even class), WITH THE RIGHT ATTITUDE.
I can’t tell you exactly how to fix that your mom thinks you hate her or helping your dad eat right, but I’ll tell you this much:
1. If someone truly hated you, they’d kill you.
2. It takes alot of self-control to stop eating certain things, and it must be done slowly if that person does not have the self-control.

Basically taking fake baby steps will help the process.
Aka with me and drinking pop:
I told myself no carbonated soda.
So then, kkay, there’s no pop but I still like powerade and gatorade, lemonade and oranagade. (****, I’ve got aids.)
But next step that I will take is to not drink sugary drinks excluding juices, which are pretty healthy.

(Really you can eat anything you want if you exercise, but I didn’t tell you that.)

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issybelle 38 #
Boulder, CO, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

she doesn’t sound so bad
but i’m in a good mood so everything seems just peachy to me

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Xenos 1 #
Plattsburgh, NY, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

it’s not that she’s a bad mom or a ba person she’s just not very smart and doesn’t really understand the world and she doesn’t understand me at all, and i try to talk to her and meh

Help me with: so…life…is way to hard…and remember how i was all, i’m moving out when i turn 18 and whatever…well,

issybelle 38 #
Boulder, CO, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

yeah, moms will be like that
but hey
you should do what you said, hang with your friends

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x0x_beb 1 #
Toronto, ON, CA | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Um if your mom yells a lot about things that seem to be stupid, maybe something else is bugging her. try talking to her nicely be like “mom can we talk without yelling and getting mad at each other” she’ll listen to you. and sneaking out with just cause more drama in the house and leaving a note. i think you need to tell her that you need a bit time on your own with friends beacuse you are stressed. trust me. talk things out. good luck!

Xenos 1 #
Plattsburgh, NY, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

i try to, but she never gets it, like really i do try, but she just never understands, and she thinks i spend too much time at the mall, and i told her all my friends were at the mall and that i like to see them……

Help me with: so…life…is way to hard…and remember how i was all, i’m moving out when i turn 18 and whatever…well,

funtime 0 #
San Rafael, CA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

yea dude you deff. need to move out… just get a good career going so you never have to live back at home.

oh that thing about dad eating cake… lol i got the same thing going on, it’s pathetic huh?

Xenos 1 #
Plattsburgh, NY, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

yeah

Help me with: so…life…is way to hard…and remember how i was all, i’m moving out when i turn 18 and whatever…well,

pebbles0416 2 #
NY, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

Yea just move out you will probably more happier. Me and my mom didnt use to get along, But I moved ot and our relationship changed things are a whole lot better.

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Xenos 1 #
Plattsburgh, NY, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

yeah, i want to

Help me with: so…life…is way to hard…and remember how i was all, i’m moving out when i turn 18 and whatever…well,

x0x_beb 1 #
Toronto, ON, CA | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (13 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Ya i think every teenager goes through a stage where they would rather hang out with their friends then their family i no im going through that. Um whats your background? Being raised from like eastern europe parents dont understand their children hanging out with their friends all the time

dadriftking1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

****…im 14 and i feel the same way, i dont like living with my parents.. cant wait till i ****ing move out the place

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Xenos 1 #
Plattsburgh, NY, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days after post)

yeah…i hate it

Help me with: so…life…is way to hard…and remember how i was all, i’m moving out when i turn 18 and whatever…well,

starlashchic 1 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month after post)

Hi, you seem like a pretty sound guy, bright and such, you just have to try and look at the bigger picture…so your mum makes some bad decisions, and maybe isnt as bright as you, maybe inside she is upset because she is unsatisfied in her own life, looking after kids,and a husband, having an average job, this may make her angry and feel worthless which reflects badly on you…things are looking up, you will be 18 soon
and when you get out of the pressure’s of your house maybe you’ll relax a little and start enjoying life again. x

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Xenos 1 #
Plattsburgh, NY, US | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month after post)

indeed

Help me with: so…life…is way to hard…and remember how i was all, i’m moving out when i turn 18 and whatever…well,

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