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so yeah baby might be mine if its not born by friday

there going to take it next week im 22 and scared this girl has named 6 men who could also be the dad but says shes sure its mine if it is mine i want her because i love this child still unborn at this moment but she plans to move to california after its born curently we live in arkansas someone please help me

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Toodles Setto offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 445 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

dna test?

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Endur offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Primm Springs, TN, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

It’s sounds like she moves around quite a bit. If there are 5 other potential dads, you might consider as setto said and get a “paternity test”. If it is yours…go and get some custody issues worked out right away. If it is not yours…tough decision. I would tend to move away from the situation, if she is seeing that many guys and unprotected…..well, you may get a lot more than you expected. Life is tough enough when two people are committed to each other and have a common goals, you will need each other to weather the storms of life. It sounds like you may not have a solid starting point with her yet. Think about it.

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Cookie Dough! offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Kensington, G4, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

I agree with Endur entirely. Best of luck.

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cricket_8646 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Conway, AR, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

thanks engdur i agree with what u said and i havent been with this girl since i found out she was messin around on me and since then ive focused more on my life goals when she told me it was definently not mine 6 months ago then she turned around a week ago and said its gotta be mine had i have known i was still a possibility i would have been saving more and done more planning based on the fact of this potential child

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Endur offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Primm Springs, TN, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

don’t beat yourself up…but knowing what you know you can certain request the test be done. Children are a blessing…parenting however is one of the greatest challengs you will ever face. If it is yours, I hope for you the two of you can see how to do this together.

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 54 minutes after post)

well for one… my oldest daughter was 3 weeks over due… so timing doesnt exactly mean anything… as for her being with 6 men.. omg… i hope to god that she has been tested for all those std’s.. because if she has herpies.. or anything else that is uncruable and such… she will need a c-section.. other wise the baby could be infected… BE SURE YOU HAVE A DNA TEST DONE…. and until you get that done… i would not get too hooked up on the baby… as it will only cause heart ache.. i wish you lots of luck hun…

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (13 hours, 12 minutes after post)

if she were more careful seh would know who the father was! I think if she has that many possible fathers she doesn’t deserve the baby!

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babacup offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

Ya, I was two weeks past due with two of my children. So would not count the day the child is born as proof it is yours. Request the dna test. Do not put it off to long. It is best to know right away so you can either start bonding with your child or you can get on with your life and wish the best for her and the child. Let us know how things turn out. And if the child is yours, move mountains to make sure it has the best life posable.

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