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i want to find a girl

but i dont just want to settle for the first thing i find i actually want a good relationship but every time i do find anyone who i would actually want to date or that i care about and try to make a relationship out of it i fall on my face or get hurt and im wondering what to do about it or if there even is anything i can do

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Loving_it offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 Add Friend #
Bloomfield Hills, MI, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 hours, 4 minutes after post)

How old are you?

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hurstman41 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Auburn Hills, MI, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

im 17

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Cabin John, MD, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

You have to wait for the right time, you cant just find her, you both find eachother, and your 17, you have a while….
“The right” girl will come soon though, you have to be patient.

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hurstman41 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Auburn Hills, MI, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

i just worry because every time i seem to find someone that i can get close to it blows up in my face

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Cabin John, MD, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

Well you have too wait..not everything goes so smoothly when you are looking for someone.
I am only 17, but have been through hell and back and I dated a loser for a year and a half, things blew up in my face ALLL the time when I dated him, but I wish I would have relized it in the beginning. I wish that I could have seen that…so be thankful that you dont get too attached too easily
The right person will come one day.

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hurstman41 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Auburn Hills, MI, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

i guess your right it just gets so anoying waiting, you know?

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hurstman41 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
Auburn Hills, MI, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

it starts in like 5 min or less

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