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First, I’d get away from the boyrfriend.

Secondly, I don’t know what your financial situation is right now. I’ll assume that it’s not too good since you’re still with that boyfriend. As {SendMeAnAngel} wrote, there are places that can help you.

In addition, I would like to add that there are married couples in America who are unable to conceive. Because of this, they are willing to pay you to bear a child for them. I understand that you might not want to give your child up for adoption, but these couples often allow you to keep in contact with the child. I wouldn’t have brought this up except for the fact that appears that you might not be able to financially take care of the child. Rememember, this is only one option.

Good luck to you!

Hmmm…nlyons…not so sure about that one. Presuming that he’s the father, his permission would normally be required.

I do think that you need to get away from him and also that you need to leave the area. How’s about trying to get a place in some sort of charity hostel? Not the most amazing of places, I know, however it will keep your fixed costs down. You can also perhaps go to work for a couple of months before you’re completely immobile to save some money up. Other than that, state support/ benefit may be of use?

It’ll be a hard ride for sure, but from the sounds of things, well worth it in the end. I wish you the very best of luck.

That’s a good point. I did assume, though, that the boyfriend/father would not be keen on keeping the child.