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Today is a bad day.

Anyone out there want to talk?

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diamondgal200 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

yeh im here whats up?

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macray offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Chester, OH, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Just was hoping to talk to someone today, it feels as if everything is crashing down around my head. I have been running from my past for a long time now. I made a lot of mistakes many years ago and have been trying to fix them but it may be to late. If it all comes out I think I will lose my life, family, and friends. I don’t know what to do and I think it is to late.

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diamondgal200 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

no it depends on the situation, i am not familiar with your circumsatnces…whats wrong??

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macray offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Chester, OH, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I’m sorry if this is a bit winded but here is the background. We recently lost our house, we were renting from my mother-in-law and my wife and her had a falling out. This has spun my wife into a spiral of depresion. Not only did we lose our house but my wife lost her mother. On top of that we have been trying to dig ourselves out of dept that we accumilated over many years of bad dicesions. We are living in a very nice townhouse but my wife still feels confined. I have tried to keep the worst from her but for the first time in our marrige I can’t fix it. It is mostly financial, but it is short term. If I had another month I would be able to fix it. I just think the house of cards is going to collapse sooner than that.

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nijb8 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
London, H9, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

It’s never too late my friend, I also have had a hard life due to finacial problems. What matters is yourself and your family, you need to think through things in a logical manner, maybe make changes in your lifestyle that seem severe, they will improve your situation. Get back to me if you want to talk more. I am in the U,K

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macray offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Chester, OH, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

That is part of the problem. I am usually very logical and have worked out all the best and worst case situations. The money is a problem right now but I think the underlying problem is bigger.

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nijb8 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
London, H9, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

what do YOu think is causing the problems?

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macray offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Chester, OH, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

I don’t know, but I’m at the end of my rope. I don’t know how to go on or move forward. I’m scared

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nijb8 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
London, H9, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

Would you like me to talk with you, man to man ? you can call me on (44) 7773 994831 0r I can ring you if you prefer.
You need to talk that’s for sure.

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macray offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Chester, OH, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

I can’t talk right now. I don’t think i’m up to that. i just feel lost i have only told this once before on this site. that was another bad day but things just keep getting worse

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macray offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Chester, OH, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

the stupid thing is that over the last couple of years since my wife graduated our life seemed to be getting better. the the hammer fell and everything went to crap

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nijb8 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
London, H9, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

I have the time, the inclination and can afford to give you the help you need, please please talk, either by e-mail or phone.

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macray offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Chester, OH, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

it is nice to know that there is someone out there. i know that so many people have gone through this and yet you can still feel so alone.

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nijb8 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
London, H9, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

don’t i have to go now but will be back later. be strong xx

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macray offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West Chester, OH, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

thanks

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nijb8 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
London, H9, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

It’s 18.00 hrs here, If you want to take the plunge, then you have my number. It’s your call. I work nights so anytime is cool. Stay in touch, back tomorrow.

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