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i hate my dad i’m 17 now and he is controling every

thing in my life i used to have no friends i used to be depressed all the time untill i started making some friends i started to refuse every thing he wants me to do when i stared to hang out with my friends he always call me asking me to get back to home aslo its early he always wants me next to him not doing any thing but be at home and studing or not doing any thing he never give me money and he refuse to buy me any thing i want i asked once to have adrumset but he refused now i’m stealing money from him and palying in astudio what can i do to change him iwanna have fun and life lik a normal teenager

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lelie3 offline Unverified User #
Lutherville Timonium, MD, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

its okay stay strong and do you.

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blue42 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Crowthorne, Q2, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

where abouts are you? could you get a job, part time if you are in school or somthing? your dad might respect you showing maturity & independence & begin to cut you some slack

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helen offline Unverified User #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

ok, dont steal $$$ from yor dad
im 17 also, dad is controlling 2, but yull be ok
think: in a year or 2 youll be in college, away from him

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Leb_princess offline Unverified User #
CA | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Woow :S
Well I know its hard , like my dads controlling as well, but he just realy cares about you and dosen’t want anything wrong to happen
Did you try talkin 2 him about this? telling him how you feel

P.s stay strongg xx.

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
Midvale, UT, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Ask your dad what’s up with the iron grip. Are your friends a bad influence? Open up the lines of communication with your dad. Ask him if he trust the choices you make. Speaking of trust. It is hard to do if that person is stealing from you. Ask him wasn’t he young once? What mistakes is he afraid you will make? TALK, TALK,TALK.

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