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NEED HELP TONIGHT!

Me and my gf have been together 20 months. We have arguments all the time but this time we have really hit a snag!! The problem is, that I show as much love as i can as often as i can and i dont seem to be getting any back? i’ve tried talking to her and the response i get is “i dont know”. And this time i dont know either? i dont wanna end things because i love her? what are my options? cheers

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Jimmy_IBTY offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

If the relationship is truely that bad then its clearely going no where and its time to break up. you should possibly talk things over with her she may have commitment issues.

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10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

i cant dump her man. shes the love of my life

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Jimmy_IBTY offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Then talk it over with her bro. Because you’re relationship right now is at a stand still and doesn’t seem to be working or moving in the right direction.

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GB | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

i have talked it over, told her what i thought but i really dunno???? i CANNOT AND WILL NOT dump her.

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Please-put on-pants. offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
Pahala, HI, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Maybe you seem boring to her right now,do something amazing to show her why she went out with you in the first place =) take her to the first place you went on a date together maybe?just something romantic

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Jimmy_IBTY offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

well slimboy good luck with her.

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ed_der_red offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Manchester, I2, GB | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

maybe try being apart for a while..a week or two. abscence makes the heart grow fonder, so the saying goes..but more importantly it’ll give you time to reflect, space to breathe and time to re-evaluate. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be..if it is, it’ll work out.

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Little Miss Enigma offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 43 minutes after post)

I think that this is something we really can’t help with because we would need too much information to fully understand your problem at hand!

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