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i wish i could give you a answer that would make everything better for you but there really isnt one other than what you already know in your heart and that is that your boyfriend is unstable and you should leave him for your own sake. My sister is a recovering alcoholic and it is very difficult to deal with watching someone you love damage themselves like this. i also have a friend who is schizophrenic, this was triggered by years of smoking weed. my friend is a nice guy and would not intentionally hurt anyone but he attacked his mum and ex girlfriend because he thought they were talking in strange voices at him, he was taken to a mental health unit for 5 months and has to take meds for the rest of his life and never EVER smoke weed again. Have you considered going to your parents and telling them how you feel about this? they may ask you to come home if they realised what a serious situation you are in? it may give you time to think about what you want from your life and what you really want for your child. I am biased as I have 2 children and I wish I could explain in words the amazing joy and light they bring to my life. being a mother is the hardest job in the word, it is long hours and no pay but it is the most satisfying job at the same time, my heart bursts with happiness just watching them sleep knowing they are safe but i understand it is not for everyone and am not judging any decision you may make i would just suggest time away from your bf to consider all your options.
please dont think that if your bf goes back to drugs that it is your fault, he is an adult and responsible for his own actions. i have lost many friends to drugs and when i was your age i took an overdose while drunk, i dont really remember doing it but i do remember waking up to my mum and sister crying next to the hospital bed and that image gives me guilt everytime i think about it and always will. I was upset after splitting up with someone who was my world, it took time after that to realise he was dragging me down and if i had stayed with him i would be on the streets, drunk or dead. That morning waking up to the people that really loved me was a turning point for me, i realised that there were better things ahead for me and that i had hope.
i wish the same for you, i wish for you to have the strength to make difficult decisions, the courage to ask for help when you need it, and love in your heart to give you light in the darkest times.

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I Bless you jmd for not terminating your baby’s life from your womb. I vote on leaving your b/f. Return to your family and friends and begin writing a new Life Plan, similar to a Business Plan.

This will be your guide in getting your life back on track.

I hope the best for you!

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It is a decision that you can only make, but it is not the “end of the World” because you are pregnant. There is a beautiful human being that you are carrying around and you must do what is best for the child. Abusive people are not good for children, at all, as you know. But, you must decide. If he is aware of his problem and seeks help, there is a chance it will work. But, having said that, if he does not know that he has a problem, would not jump into that situation. It is hard enough to take care of the child, much less, deal with a person that is abusive.

I think that you need to think of yourself and your child before you say you are not going to leave him. If he can’t handle being a father you need to leave him. You don’t have to give the baby up. I mean if that is really what you want to do then by all means do it but if you don’t you just are because of your bf leave him and keep the baby. You know you are never alone you have all of us here on help.com and you also have God. Keep your hopes high and try to think of you first!

Please give us some feedback…What do you think? Communication is everything!

You are better off without him. Take solace in God, your family, and your REAL friends and most of all, give your child a future. Your feelings are normal. Hey, I’m 32 and love and relationships still bring out all the emotions in someone my age, but as young as you are, you have PLENTY of time.

Live, laugh, and love with your family as I promise you, THEY will be the ones to stand beside you during this time of trial. God bless you and keep you and your child. I truly pray you will be comforted.

I think that you should cherish the ability to give life and keep the baby so that you will be able to have friends again because this baby will grow up to love you more than anything else has loved you. also please dont take your own life because you will hurt everyone around you who has loved you. People like me who explore religion learn to love everything and having someone beautiful like you would be a terrible thing to lose. I’m sure that when you see your baby that you will see that this life has beautiful things that are worth living for and you will see life in a more optimistic view. Please don’t kill yourself because the world needs people who can persevere.

The both of you need to see a doctor to help him with his anger.

So was the baby born today?? Is it yours? We are all excited to know!!

sorry! I am a different one! I mistoke this post for another one that is similar!!! SORRY! So I was wondering. . . . is it a boy or a girl!?!?!?!? We all are dying to know!!!