ok i am also 14 yrs old and if i was ur mom i would b upset 2. if u were 2gether 4 awhile then it was prabably real but if u just got 2gether then i think u were a booty call. ur parents prabably acted the way they did 2 protect u. my parents are the same way. they do it in a way that they know will get me mad. try talking 2 ur mom about the dating thing bcuz if she said that u could still date him then that kinda invalves talking and cing eachother. try to make some kinda deal. but wow. u had sex at the age of 14 with a 17 yr old guy! i have a question, wat was going through ur mind when u did this? ok if ur mom doenst let u c him again member that u r 14 and had sex and u wanted 2 live with him! good luck.
Maybe this relationship is just too risky to continue. Your boyfriend is illegal and his papers say he is 21, so if your parents ever do go to the police he either gets charged with statutory rape or gets deported. This isn’t a healthy situation for a relationship.
Try to remember that your parents do want what is best for you. They understand that that teenage relationships tend to not last. Frankly you really wouldn’t want them too anyway. It’s healthy to date several people as we grow and learn who we are and what we want out of life. The person you are now, will be very different in certain ways when you are 17 or 21, or even 25. It’s hard for you and your boyfriend to stay together since you will both be changing over the next few years. I think your parents are just trying to keep you from getting too attached. Trying to keep your heart from being broken.
i just don’t want you to get your hopes up. It is way to risky, and i know you think you love him but, you only fourteen you have so much time to find love…
sweetheart is right. i know this from personal experience. i loved 2 guys and i never thought i could live without them. but i sorted out my priorities and now i realise that i don’t need them. sort out your priorities CAREFULLY to figure out what you really want.
im confussed ur boyfriend is prob just using u 4 a bit of easy sex to be honest and if that is the case well poor you, i feel for you. At the end of the day getting married at 14 what are you on girl?
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First of all your mom is worried cause youre still a kid (14) I am a mother myself and I know that I will be very worried if my 14 yr old daughter starts seeing a guy at such an early age…Finish school first, get a job then think about boys later…Your mom loves you very much and doesnt want to see you get hurt, I dont know much about your bf mayb mom is right youre just a booty stop…So get a life and get over it stop blaming your mom…
People that don’t understand where your coming from shouldn’t reply to this post. Okay, I was dating a 20 year old about 3 months ago. We only lasted about a week the first time and the second time we lasted about 2 weeks. It was because we were only meant to be friends. You need to think about if you and your boyfriend were only meant to be friends too. I’m 14 too, by the way. I lost my virginity to this one guy, he was 17 and I knew he wasn’t a virgin, I knew he had a girlfriend. But I didn’t think he was such a jerk. He said every sweet thing under the sun to get in my pants, and it worked. Then after, he acted like it never happened. You need to start thinking about how much you really know your boyfriend. I was also dating a different 17 year old, he was pretty nice. Really hot. He wasn’t always trying to get in my pants. But he was so immature, and I’m pretty sure hes never gonna go anywhere in life. Is your boyfriend one of those type of people? Your mom could be right, but she doesn’t know your boyfriend or where your coming from. You probably shouldn’t listen to her. You should just go talk to your boyfriend about where he thinks this relationship is gonna go. Ask him if he still wants to be with you.Ask him how he feels about the whole situation.
sweet there right u r just a little kid.so don’t give up by ur first love.u should think first before u going to have sex with 17 years old guy..r u kidding me,hun no matter how much u love him,but u have to think first..may be ur mam is right maybe she could be wrong 2.
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Im in the same situation. I am 14 my boyfriend is 17. We got nailed the other day because we were talking about having kids when we were married but our parents thought we wanted them now. I do beileve if you think you love your boyfriend you probably do. Heres what i would do enjoy him while you have him, his parents made us brake up. His parents also are not letting us talk however we are anyway and on his phone bill he will get nailed but he is the one who keeps trying to talk to me. Anyways, i am still a vergin however last time he saw me he brought condoms. We talk about everything nothing is too personal so we had talked about how it would be good if he got some. We no can not see eachother for a long time. Any questions(since were going through the same thing) i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>
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hey hun.
im knoe where ur coming from.
im also 14 and my boyfriend is 17.
well u knoe if u really do love him den u wont let nothing stop u from talking or seeing ur boyfriend.
but u also have to realize dat ur 14 and u knoe sum 17 year old guys are juz in to hit and quit and den durrs da ones who say dey arent juz in it to hit and quit it.
but durrs also da ones who actually are in it to hit and stay. cuz dey really do love you.
well best thing u cud ever do is listen to ur mind cuz ur heart will lie to u.
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im 14 and my boyfriend is 17 aswell,
im just really worried because i lied to my parents and said he was my age,
and im trying to think of a way to tell them he’s really 17 :/
i just dont want to ruin what we have at the moment because theyre fine with me seeing him and going out on dates with him but im scared that if they knew his real age it would all be different and they’d try and stop me from seeing him.
what shall i do?!
well im 14 and i no how u fill coz im going out with a 17 yrs old
and i didnt know how to tell my mum and dad that he was 17 coz at first i sad he was 15 by it was i lie so wat i did i cryed my eyes out my mum said wat is up
i said mum i lied to u (mum)bout wat (me) my bf hes not 15 hes 17 but i love him and dont want u to split us up plz dont . and she didnt
im also 14 dateing a 17 year old. Honestly i think at our age, sex is stupid. My parents dont know we are going out but we agreed we wouldnt go past 2nd base. IF your situation is as desperate as you say it is, just try talking to him about it when you see him. Also, if he really loves you he will try his hardest to stay with you no matter what. Also, since he wants to marry you i honestly dont think hes useing you and ‘booty calling’ you. If i was your mom i would be upset too. Mine is like crazy worried about me just cause she thinks im ‘friends’ with my boyfriend. According to every mother on the planet, all guys at that age thing about is sex. I dont think thats true at all, but i think its a huge portion. I have alot of problems trying to ease into things with my boyfriend cause he likes to go fast and im pretty new to all of this but we always talk it out. Point is, there are other girls like you and you arnt alone. My adive would be to have a heart to heart talk with him about the two of you and your futures together and weather you really want to get married or not. try to use common sense. Do you honestly see yourself with him in 30, 40 years? Now i know you’re in love, and so your judgment might be clouded, (i know mine definatly is when it comes to guys) so you have to pretend you dont love him and look at all the good AND bad things about him and analize him as a person and not your boyfriend. I;ve been in your situation before, i dated a guy who was 20 and i got into a whole predicament with him and my parents found out about him and i got into a ******** of trouble.
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i am 16 and im with a 20 year old. he is my everything. we have been together behind my parents back for 7 months. we have gotten caught and had to talk to our parents about it a few times but we still persist and still talk and still see each other because we complete each other. i have not had sex with him because my mom is thinking about a restraining order and the age of concent in maryland is 16 so its not a problem. i will fight her on the restraining order because i love my boyfriend. and he loves me more than life itself.
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darling i live in jamaica and these parents out here would kill u if they found out u were dating anyone any age fyi i am 14 and wen i was in first form i was dating a fiftformer it so totally freaked me out at first but then saw age doesnt matter then my mother found out but got the wrong age which was 15 she wanted to hit me but my father said no yes i told them i wuld not talk back 2 him but come on he is my boo{was} after that i dated alot if ages not out of high school but older back 2 d topic u are too young 2 marry and live with this guy come on u r going 2 miss home nd think about school and other stuff
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