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My boyfriend is close, a little too close.

Let me explain. I have worked with him ever since I have dated him (about two years). Now I have a new job, just got hired today, and now he asks me if it’s ok if he works with me. It’s too much. He is sweet, really, everything a girl wants, but its just too much. Every weekend, and now every other day, all day. What do I say? I don’t want to be mean to him, but he’s driving me crazy!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

just let him down gently and explain you need some space?

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katherinemhollan offline Unverified User #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

tell him you need some space, you should go out with your GIRLfriends and let your hair down.

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bigbke offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (17 minutes after post)

you would be doing him a favour by telling him, he might become less needy and your relationship might take a whole new chapter cos your being honest with him

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ceecee301 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Astoria, NY, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (20 minutes after post)

one day when you get older you will want him to give you all of his attention you are pushing him away let it be give him the attention he wants it will only make your relationship stronger ….best wishes

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Nj17 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Peterborough, K3, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Drive him crazy back? :p

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