never say that no one will love you,
drop out of college if your failing, maybe bunk with a friend and get a part time job until you can repay your loans.
i know it sounds campy, but the only way you can be a failure at life is if you dont try and make it better.
killing yourself would hurt people. if you have family, im sure they love you and care about you. someone cares about you. maybe you need to move away and start a new life, but dont end your life due to some mistakes or problems. learn from them, get 2 jobs if you need to. theres always another choice/option
come on sweet heart. money is nothing in this world, we just think it is. im also failin college too, so your not alone there. people will love you as soon as you let some in. believe they can love you and they will.
Where is help bot? Napping?
Killing yourself is the most selfish thing anyone can do. its not worth it you only have one life to live make the most out of it pull ur self together. Go out with somone friends go to parties you ll find somone else life isnt all about money
2300.00 vs. your life. I think your life is worth more. Things may look ****** now but just think of all of the good you will miss in life. My husband is fighting for his life right now. You have it.Go to the www.nfcc.org. They can help you with your debt. Make your life worth it.
dont kill yourself mate,things will get better.its very upsetting for the people you leave behind.can youre parents or family not help you out.im sure youre family would rather help you out than have a dead daughter,youre life is precious so hang on to it.
it has its ups and downs but u can get through it
it’s just so hard. i feel like no matter what i do it’s not going to be good enough. i’ve already been hospitalized for attempted suicide, and i dont know if it’s even worth it anymore.
You’ll be fine. You are not the only one in the whole financially and heart break sucks, but it will go away. you are only 21. that’s not old at all. you are barely an adult. Life goes on. smile :)
You see light at the end of tunel soon, believe me. Life is full of suprises
Take a break from school and just concentrate on yourself. College IS NOT easy! Just take a break and focus on work or whatever it is that will make you happy and don’t contemplate suicide. Like someone said, you are worth more than $2300!
ur priceless no amount of money gives life
the thing is this wasn’t just some guy. he’s my best friend and the guy i was suppose to marry. if he cant love me i feel like no one can. and my family is a big reason why i’m like this now.
Hang in there, everything seems so bad, but I’ve been there too. Generally theres only one way to go , & thats up, when you’ve hit the bottom. It’s just so hard to see the light when you’re that morose. Your mind is not rational when you’re that down on yourself. Find a good friend, a good friend, who is thinking rationally for you. Or, look in the phone book for a crisis intervention line. People there are trained to listen, once they know your story they can often lead you to less cloudy thinking & offer alternatives your mind cannot see now.
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theres how many people like that. when you get married (in general). you dont expect to get a divorse, but people do. you dont plan it, it just happens. things will always go wrong, not just for you, but for everyone. if everyones lives were perfect than this would be heaven.
let this experience make you stronger and make you a better person. there is someone for everyone. even if they dont find that person early on. people dont just jump into a relationship and it magically becomes their husband or wife forever. you need to experience these types of things so you can learn from them. dont just end your life because of this. you may see this is a really big deal, but just think, there are so many other bigger problems in life. not just with you, but with other people. i hope this is helping. i hope you can see how to make good of this situation
we broke up bc of me. he cheated on me and i’ve been so paranoid ever since. and he cant take me being jealous and not trusting him anymore. he said that i need to get my life together so that we can be together. but i wouldnt be this way if he didnt cheat.
its not your fault. i fully understand you. if my gf cheated on me, i wouldnt be able to trust her ever again. he isnt seeing this in your eyes.
Some times people don’t see other peoples value because they are too selfish. Try to understand no one person will ever fill that hole your feeling inside. The only thing that will ever truly fullfil you is a relationship with Jesus Christ. You are very important to Him. He actually did die for you. You have a purpose on this earth so don’t give up hope yet. Hang in there and ask God if He is real. You might feel silly at first but if you ask Him into your heart He will come.
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he’s the one i know he is, and this is just killing me that he doesnt want to be with me right now. i love him will all my heart, he knows everythign about me, i tell him everything. i just dont see the point living if i’m not with him.
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i just want to die. my boyfriend of 2 yrs just broke up with me. im 21 yrs old, i’m $2,300 in the hole. i don’t know how i’m going to pay next months rent. i’m a failure in college. i’m just a failure in life. i dont want to be here anymore. it would just be easier if i wasnt here. no one will ever love me. i dont want to hurt anymore!!!
Missyav2, my friend there will other guys. $2300 is not much money. What I’m saying, your problems are not that great. Think about the positive things in your life. Your health, friends, relatives, etc…And, you are blessed to live in a country that is free…greatest country in the World. You have been blessed…
Bottomline, think about the good things in your life. Don’t live in the past…Life will get better when you start thinking better.
When you shut off your life, you run out of options.
No options, no solution.
Stay.
Fight.
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You gave too much to him. You became attached to him. Emotionally and in other ways. You based your identity on how he saw you or related to you. Instead you should be strong without someone else… He had too much power over you, and you gave him that power. Now you are paying a price and you shouldn’t have to. You don’t deserve to feel unworthy or like life isn’t worth living. It isn’t right. You deserve as everyone does, to be all you can be. In the future it is important to know boundaries and limitations when relating to others, so your relationships can be healthier with some balance. These kinds of relationships last much longer. I believe you will get through this, because you really want to, deep inside. You wouldn’t be posting on here if you didn’t. I hope you do and wish you all the best.
missyav2 wrote:
it’s just so hard. i feel like no matter what i do it’s not going to be good enough. i’ve already been hospitalized for attempted suicide, and i dont know if it’s even worth it anymore.
go find another user ,,,go in more debt…rem u have to have a man or ur not complete,,,,,maybe call him and see if he needs more money…giving it up easy werent u,,,,woman are sooo stupid when it comes to men…..quit being stupid and being a bum magnet….your problem is the pettiest of petty!! waa waaaa …get over it,,he screwed u then he screwed u….u let him do it so …id open my eyes if i were u…
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you are all a bunch of blubbering idiots……
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I am so sorry to hear that u are going through this. I to know how it feels…….i just found out that my girlfriend has been sleeping with me neighbor for about 2 weeks now……..i am also going down hill……..but i know that it will eventually get better……….but if you need someone to talk to that is going through exactly what u are right now i am all ears……maybe we can help each other out……..i know that u don’t want to be a lone right now……that is how i feel…..i don’t let my self be alone though…..because i know if i am i will do something that i will regret….or not have a chance to regret what i did……just keep your head up….it is a long healing process but it will get better……..if you have AIM and want to talk my sn is rapgamet feel free to im me anytime.
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