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Well in the last 6 months have you been working and how much money have you saved to get your own place. Take the money that you have saved and look for a room for rent then move on with your life from that point. Hope this helps :-)

I do not have a job or any money saved. I have been working for this couple.

What, Ok I can see taking care of the dogs and doing some house cleaning for room and board. Obviously the rest of the free time has been just hanging out and doing nothing. You where given 6 months to get your life going, if its not thats no one fault but your own and now its time to grow up and take responsibility for it.

I was not “given” six months. I have done alot more than take care of dogs and houseclean. There were over 100 dogs by the way. This couple and I had an agreement and my problem is having to leave all thes wonderful people behind.

I want advice on how to get this woman to understand that I didn’t do any of this on purpose and forgive me.

All I can say is tell them just what you posted and if they dont beleive you, then its time to find a room or apt and somekind of work.

Thanks.

you shoulda gieven the dogs water and this wouldn’t have happened

PomPom wrote:
you shoulda gieven the dogs water and this wouldn’t have happened

Yeah if they are letting you stay there you could at least feed the dogs. They are living things too you know.

Technically you have neglected her dogs. So right now she doesnt trust you.You have to regain her trust. Beg her for one more chance to prove yourself. And actually do it!

What happen that you hadn’t fed the dogs. It seems having you leave is a bit drastic if this was the first time this happen. Was there other reasons involved in her making the decision for you to leave?

I know you are loving the place that you are at right now. But you can find another job and more wonderful people in the world. It is not worth taking your life.

ok so you really need to kick yourself in the *** for the ideaa of suicide thats the cowards way out there are people much worse off than yourself and theye are struggleing to survive and as far as not having a place to live mabe you should have done a little plannig for this like saving money to get your own place like a real aduld u must strive to do better for yourself not sit back like a baby bird with its mouth open waiting to be fed spread your wings and fly go to a temp agency they will help u find a job so get up dust yourself off and grab the bull by the hors i beleive that everyone has the ability to do great things u can do it just prioritse you will get there i beleive in you

Thank you all for your help. I really appreciate it. I really did feed the dogs. I think I just forgot to fill the water. Things worked out just fine. She is still a little mad, but she is letting me stay and I will never let that happen again. Thank you all.

I am glad it worked out for you.

Ask her again in front of her husband to forgive you while looking in her eyes and never taking your eyes off of her.