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I used to go out with someone.

I loved this person soo much but as our relationship continued, it kinda went down the drain because of my bad temper and her emotional instability, which was also my fault. for a more detailed story about all this, please look at my other post “my love story.”
anyways, the purpose of this post is that…we recently broke up but we’re still really close and we talk to each other quite a lot and we like hugging each other. basically really close friends that love to hug. the problem is that i think i’ve fallen in love with her again and i sorta wanna get back together cuz i miss her everyday like crazy. the reason i can’t make myself (and why she can’t) go out with this other person is because we broke up on reasons that are basically for each other’s good. we hurt each other a lot when we were together. but now we’re so happy i don’t wanna get back together. but shes also really tempting and it makes me wanna go out with her again. what should i do?

this person doesn’t realize that although we seem much happier together as friends, that i’m being tormented inside by my own thoughts. not that i’m suicidal or anything, just thinking of really stupid and self-beating things…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

hmmm maybe it is too early to get back together again? give it time. Someone just told me that love is not enough when it hurts either of the two involved.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (28 minutes after post)

If you know it won’t work, then don’t put yourself - or her - through the pain. Treasure your friendship and give it time. If the time comes when you feel that it might work, then give it another try; if that time never comes, then it wasn’t meant to be, but at least you will have that special friendship with her.

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I used to go out with someone. I loved this person soo much but as our relationship continued, it kinda went down the drain because of my bad temper and her emotional instability, which was also my fault. for a more detailed story about all this, please look at my other post “my love story.”
anyways, the purpose of this post is that…we recently broke up but we’re still really close and we talk to each other quite a lot and we like hugging each other. basically really close friends that love to hug. the problem is that i think i’ve fallen in love with her again and i sorta wanna get back together cuz i miss her everyday like crazy. the reason i can’t make myself (and why she can’t) go out with this other person is because we broke up on reasons that are basically for each other’s good. we hurt each other a lot when we were together. but now we’re so happy i don’t wanna get back together. but shes also really tempting and it makes me wanna go out with her again. what should i do?

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Belief offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Roslindale, MA, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 hours, 5 minutes after post)

You realize that some people only work as friends. If you get back together, you might start making eachother unhappy, and the next break might allow you to remain friends.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 months after post)

ask her to go out with you again If she looks tempting shes obilisly dressing attracting.Thank me If you get married with her.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 year after post)

i have sorta the same problem - me and my ex used to rlly hurt each other in our relationship (first and only true love so far) however another girl likes me and i like both of them but im not sure whether to try a new relationship or get back with my ex :/ cuz me n my ex r gettin rlly close but so is this other girl HELP.COM XD

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