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so, the girl you like dates girls also??

if your scared and want to be careful.. i would do just as you said.. be patient and just flirt with her etc.. but stay friends for awhile.. appreciate her just being around you.. theres no reason to rush =P

when me and my husband were first going out and dating.. i know he was very scared of losing me.. and just shy and scared all together lol.. pretty much.. i did everything and made all the moves.. because i was tired of waiting for so long for him to do something.. =P

maybe Amy will do that =)

oh! but does she date girls too?? cause you said “but she decided to split up with her last week”

well, she just broke up with her ex. whatever the reasons r, give it some time to c if it’s all right for her to start new relationship. u can talk to her about it, btw. just to find out how she feels about the break up and what she want to do now. it’s a good idea to become better friends and c how much she likes u. u gonna notice it, if she’s into u, that’s for sure. and it’s a safer way to make sure that she wont mind u asking her out. it saves u from breaking ur heart geting a no in responce… :( who knows, mayb right now she’s not ready for it, and u’ll get no, but latter u may get a yes. :) and, btw, how do u think, if it’s ok to date a ex of ur mates? wont it cause any problems? u r not probably that great friend, if u call him a mate, so it’s gonna b fine. :) good luck to u :)

I am not that good at advice with love problems, but I ‘ll give this one a shot.

I would go along with the advice already given you above, plus a few thouhgts. As Amy has just finished one relation, it would be best to give her plenty of time to get over it. You dont want to end up being the rebound love afair.
Just by there as much as possible for Amy, let her know that you are there for her at any time, let her come to you.

As Amy is bi she will need to figure out what sort of relationship she wants to be in next, if indeed she wants any love entanglemants at this time.

So give her time, give her some space, just wait and be there when she needs you. Let her come to you.

It’s still the same answer from me. Just let her know you want to be her friend, you should I think respect Amies wishes but still show her that she can rely on your help should she need it.
Then you must make sure that you able to be there if she needs you. Talk of suicide etc will not make it better for you, that will not impress her at all.
Just be friends at this stage, work at showing Amy that you are worthy of her love.

You now need to become a man and fight for what you want in life, every body has to do this at some stage, it makes others see that you can be rellied on to look after yourself and the people you love.

Once you manage to do this, you will be able to move on in life, being respected by the people arround you that you love and respect.

I can only say things like the phone, internet, messaging etc. The normal ways of keeping in touch. You can show her that you are willing to be a friend, talking of love is not the option untill she knows you as a friend first.
Once you have done all you can, it is then up to Amy to accept or decline your offer.
It shouldn’t change the situation as it is at present.

I dont have any other ideas, like I said in the beggining. Love problems are not my strong piont.

My replies always get at the end, but i hope it might help. Ok i would tell you that it’s better to wait untill you can see some signs that she cares about you too. And you must be a closer friend to her too so she will care. You might show her some friendly interests like know her birthdate, bring her gifts on occassions, send her nice and sweet msgs or e-mails. You know? The things that you can do with close friends. You must find something that incommon between you and her. Like special activity, sports or music or something interesting that she would say “wow” when you’ll talk to her about. You know? and in that way you’ll feel much more better about yourself too. Ok I hope I helped a little bit. Just don’t do something stupid like committing suicide and don’t even let her know you are thinking of that cuz that would never help anyone, and people have enough problems of their own so most of them will move away and not come closer bc they’ll just freak out. Good luck to u in everything.