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who am i?

im the nanny, im the red headed cutie, im the foreigner, im the college student and im the daughter, im the friend and im the criminal…but what happened to me? where did i go? who am i? whats left?

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AbNorma12 offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

This is a very tricky game. Dying to know what the criminal personallity is!

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Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

havent we all stolen once in our lifetimes? havent wee all gotten a ticket once in our lifetime…it is a criminal charge to shoplift and to have an open bottle of alcohol in your car, BUT its not been on trial yet and it wasnt proven…so far ;) thats the criminal, well, with a little weed somewhere…but im still looking for myself…

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

You and you alone attach the meaning to your life, including what some consider the ever elusive answer to “who am I”. Oh yes, others will forever try to fit you into one cubbie hole or another, but at the end of the day it is you that give them permission to do so.

You may stand in awe at the vastness of the ocean, or you may rejoice in being a drop of it; part of the whole.
Bright blessings ~ Richard

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Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

i knew who i was 5 years ago, i knew who i wanted to be 5 years ago…somewhere between then and here i got lost…i dont let them push me into any kinda box…but i dont quiet know myself where i stand, funny thing is everytime im around where i was 5 years ago, i seem to know exactly who i am and what i want…

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Dr. Phillies/Scrooge offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Wilkes Barre, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Existence what we all have in common, The Earth the Universe for everything remains a Mystery that even science cant explain. Try your best to keep going on and prosper.

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Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

i at least gotte to know a few things tho:

i can live with beig a criminal - its going to court, lets see how that works out
i can avoid 90% of the time to be a daughter
i have to live with being the nanny for another 2 years, or a little less
i have to live for now with being a college student, who cant change her major at the moment
i like being the red headed cutie ;)
i will never be anything else but the foreigner, and
i m glad to be the friend, but sometimes i like to be something more right there…

but i still seem to have no clue who i am…

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maximum payne offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
PK | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

a human after all

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Dr. Phillies/Scrooge offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Wilkes Barre, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

Or an alien, lol

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maximum payne offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
PK | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

anonymous you are being very vague

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Dr. Phillies/Scrooge offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Wilkes Barre, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

do you not watch my show?

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maximum payne offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
PK | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

man help her out if u can dont make fun

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Dr. Phillies/Scrooge offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Wilkes Barre, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

I may be an alien, I don’t know! Im not making fun its just having a sense of humor maybe you took it the wrong way, not my intention.

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maximum payne offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
PK | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Anonymous..you know what..take some time out for urself..sit alone and go over ur life…the things that u did..wished u hadnt done..go over it all in your mind..forgive urself..think about solutions..no good crying over spilled milk..forget it..the best you can do is to learn from it

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maximum payne offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
PK | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

dr philles..wat kind of an alien are you exactly?

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Dr. Phillies/Scrooge offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Wilkes Barre, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

Existence what we all have in common, The Earth the Universe for everything remains a Mystery that even science cant explain. Try your best to keep going on and prosper.
see I wrote this before so there its a mystery 80)

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maximum payne offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
PK | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

dr philles …you should watch your own show

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Dr. Phillies/Scrooge offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Wilkes Barre, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t want to be rude, Im enjoying yours.

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x-amy offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
AU | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Honestly don’t let everything that has happend to you loose yourself and all those things MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE! Yes your a nany, yes your a criminal, yes your a daughter, yes your red haired, yes your a foreigner BUT YOUR ALSO YOU! Be cause all thos things make you YOU!

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maximum payne offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
PK | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

haha..

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Dr. Phillies/Scrooge offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Wilkes Barre, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

abbas_omai I really honestly did not mean to hurt anyone, if I did Sorry again not my intention at all big misunderstanding. I do not tolerate any form of prejudice my self hope we are cool.

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Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

well, i think i dont even know what i like and what not, who i am, i DID loose myself…but i usually find myself everytime im around my friends…

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Dr. Phillies/Scrooge offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Wilkes Barre, PA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Anonymous we are all your friends, we even argue over you. No matter what you are honest and that is a great quality Good luck!

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druantia8 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sudbury, ON, CA | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

I spend most of my days trying to define myself depending on who I’m with and what I like at the time, then that changes and suddenly i dont know who i am anymore. what i’ve started to realize is that who i am has nothing to do with the way i look or who i am with or any other variable thats going to change. eventually i had to look at myself and realize what exactly it was that i wanted out of life. i’m not entirely sure what that is but i know that i want to look for it and thats a start.

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AbNorma12 offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 36 minutes after post)

If you are going to remain the nanny, make sure if you sleep with the husband, you have an advance serverance set up for when his wife finds out.

And on the real side of the coin, set a goal and go for it.

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DarrenRobinson23 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sudbury, ON, CA | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (7 hours, 38 minutes after post)

you know.. i’ve read what you said yeah its true we all have evil as good in us i’ve lost my self before i hated what i became and now im back on track its just a matter of trusting your self and making the right decission

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