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When is the right guy going to come along?

i Always fall for the ones i can’t have, who ended up becoming my best friends and telling me about their love life.

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Toodles Setto offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 445 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

maybe at the apocalypse? i hear God is a pretty good guy?

seriously though, whenever it happens, it happens.
just one of those things i say.

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gimli offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Marietta, GA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

The right guy will come along AFTER you’ve learned to be content that you are single.

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K_lalich9 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Ithaca, NY, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Dont rush wen he cums u will kno just by the first

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the german offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Frederick, MD, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

that is a very good question, im sick of waiting too, and not having the ones i want because of some stupid excuse like distance…but what can you do besides waiting?

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meleequeen offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
St Thomas, VI | 9 months ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

there is no such thing as the right guy. what you dish out is what you are going to get. In other words, be true to yourself and who you are will be recognize by the universe and return to you with the least effort. It will just happen you will know him.

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Sir Urgdu offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Evanston, IL, US | 9 months ago (2 weeks after post)

Theres a great quote in Mitch Albom’s The Five People You Meet in Heaven

“Love, Like rain, can nourish from above, drenching couples with soaking joy. But sometimes, under the angry heat of life, love dries on the surface and must be nourished from below, tending to its roots, and keeping itself alive”

the chapter ends with

“…Eddie admitted that some of his life he’d spent hiding from God, and the rest of the time he thought he went unnoticed.”

I think this really means that God can only do so much, and that sometimes God will shine his light upon someone and the answer is clear, that is love. There are also people who may be afraid to search for that light, that isnt too uncommon..

There are 6.7 billion people on earth, finding whom God sent for you isn’t going to happen overnight.

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nansil offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

The right guy is going to come when you stop looking. Meanwhile take care of yourself, read,exercise, eat healthy, go out and most important smile. Because when he shows up you would probably will have less time for yourself.

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SouthernConfusion offline Unverified User #
Knoxville, TN, US | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

I was asking myself that same question about a year ago. I am 24 and not married, not even close, but I do have a boyfriend.

I finally stopped looking, and stopped worrying about it, and he kind of fell in my lap. Even though we have some problems, he is the best b/f I have ever had.

Just be patient hun, it will happen. It ALWAYS does….

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XX-LILSTEPH-X offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

the german wrote:
that is a very good question, im sick of waiting too, and not having the ones i want because of some stupid excuse like distance…but what can you do besides waiting?

I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL IT ALWAYS SEEMS TO BE THE HORRIBLE ONES WHO LIKE ME!!!:@:@:@:@:@:@

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lilchikypoo922 offline Unverified User #
Norristown, PA, US | 8 months, 2 weeks ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

love will come when you are content with who you are. when you define yourself by your own words and not what anyone else thinks. love will come when you are happy with you. not when you go looking for yourself in someone else.

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poolside200 offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Big Spring, TX, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

what kind of guy are you looking for? because ive been waiting for a year im loving clean keep in shape not lazy but know how to relax and im a single father that works while kids are at school. not one girl is intrested in me. tell me why?

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poolside200 offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Big Spring, TX, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

i dont know why the page said im from texas

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Krysty offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Greeneville, TN, US | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

It’s just like Charlie’s mom says on (the old) Willy Wonka. Things happen when you don’t expect them. Get your mind off of finding a guy. Take piano lessons, ride a bike, do something that will take up your time. Then give it a month.

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