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Well , my life is pretty much as confusing as it could get at times.

I really thought I loved this guy , but suddenly her got really creepy and which made me not like him anymore. The guy with the SAME name as the guy I thought I really liked , just moved to my school and my friend right away decided to get with him. They went out for about 3 weeks and he dumped her, she still adores him. I started talking to him a lot more and it wasn’t really talking it was more like flirting . . and yes I started to like him. He still decides to lead her on , even though he tells everyone hes over her. I know your girls over any boy. . but I still don’t know what to do?! Should I tell her or just forget about him?

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coolgirljess94 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
West End, M4, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (12 hours, 37 minutes after post)

i went through this with a mate aswell…
i told my friend tht i liked him, and i told him i liked him…….
my mate was a bit upset as she liked him but she sed im a good friend so shes happy for me if im happy…
but some mates might not b so supportive..
ask the boy who he really likes. then u know where u stand and where ur mate stands.
but do not go out with this boy if ur mate is really unhappy with it
firends are worth much more than boys! trust me ive lost lots of friends because of boys! they r not worth it! also if u both like him u can work together to get over him!! =]

goodluck with what u decide to do!! :D
jess xxxx

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Help me with: I’ve had this boyfriend for 2 weeks friday!
lejlaa-xo offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Toronto, ON, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day after post)

aw , okay well im talking to him right now.
and i am gonna try what your saying , i really hope it works, because i like this guy a lot . my friend will probably say shes fine with it but i know she wont be fine. shes that type of person , shes a great friend and i would choose her over any guy. my best friend is telling me to confront her but i dont have the guts. im meating up with my friend tmrw and ill see if i can go through with it.
thanks so much.
xo
lejlaa

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