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so i found this guy who’s absolutely perfect.
he fits all of the criteria that i have always said that i’ve wanted. he’s nice, funny, smart, he has a job, he has great morals (meaning he doesnt smoke or drink or anything like that), he’s a Christian, he’s cute, he’s super athletic, he watches out for me…he’s everything. he really likes me too. but here’s the problem: I don’t like him. i want to like him. but i just dont. i dont feel the connection there and i think it could be because he’s just too nice. im not sure if that makes any sense at all but its just how i feel. i mean, we talk all the time, and we’re going to prom together, but i dont think i see us being any more than friends.
the one thing i dont like about him is that he’s too obsessive. he has already been talking about marriage and everything. he’s always saying to be careful because he doesnt want anything to happen to me and that he wishes he could protect me from everything in the world…and i should take that as sweet, but i dont need protected, i’ve always been independent and i dont need a guy to take care of me.
please tell me what to do….
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