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I was in love with this guy, we will call him R and

his dad told me that R really loved me and that he just wanted to c R married, and that we would be together. I left my current bf of 5 years for R. Surprise surprise it’s been a year and I havn’t talked to R at all, I’ve tried but he just avoids me like the plague.
I know that he never loved me I just want to know how to get over this and move on. It haunt’s me everyday. Is it suppose to?
Any thought’s, insight, advice, or perspective would be greatly appreciated.
Thank u.

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Confused as H-E-L-L offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Elk Grove, CA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

If you feel that bad about it that it haunts you then I say you are suppossed to feel bad. Take time to think about the problem/situation at hand. Just set soem time aside, if you can spare it, and just spend time concentrating(spelling sorry) what all happened.

In time you should be able to figure out how everything and all of that jazz and you’ll be able to see what you bacame out of it all.

Just spend a little time everyday and soon you’ll accept it and most likely it will stop haunting you less and less.

But be warned it will never cease compltely; Every now and then, even after you get over it, you’ll think about what happened and become sad, just take time then to relize everything happens for one reason or another.

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DemonBoy offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Miami, FL, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (18 hours, 17 minutes after post)

hey just skip the R and go to the which ever letter shows up next looking for something nice and clean someone who appreciates you, R doesnt deserve you lets send him to hell and when he sees you with or hears that you are with any other letter you will probably hear from R himself .. dont look for him move on get another guy …..

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Demonaimar offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Thank u so much that helps alot.

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