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falling deeper and deeper…

need help, lots of it. don’t know where to start. have a bartending gig that could be potentially benefitial, but it could be too little too late.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (0 minutes after post)

first off, whats wrong?

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

lol…what else, money. don’t really know what i’m doing, but i’m just short of desperate. lost my job (real estate) about 4 months ago. like i said, i picked up a bartending gig, but it’s not producing. can’t quit, cuz that would just put me in the same spot. it’s gotten so bad i cant afford even the necessities, like contacts, gas, food, etc… like i said, i don’t know what i’m doing, or why i’m on here; but i need a miracle.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

well, try to angle to get a better job while you keeep bartending, and cut back on everything.thats all i can think to do

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Yeah, i wish it was that easy. But i appreciate your time friend! i know i’m one of millions complaining about money, so the fact that you took a minute to listen is a true testament of your character. Thank you.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

well, internet is a luxury, how much is being on line costing you?

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

nothing, made a deal w/ the brother. i’m a resourceful person, and can work things out most of the time; but sometimes i just need someone from the outside to look in at the things i can’t see.

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cmurphy443 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

HI; my name is Cynthia and i’d love to help you if you’ll let me o.k. now the first thing you have to do is tell God your problem.I think you need proffectional help. I’m not the one with the problem you are. And if you continue on this path your heading for self destruction. you need to listen to me Ive been there . There’s help but you have to let it in. Your not going to get the answer by thinking you know everything, cause you don’t nobody does but we can help each other .Every problem has a solution….

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

Hi there Cynthia. While i appreciate your response, and can relate to what your telling me. ( i grew up in a christian home). one of the biggest mistakes that christians make, is telling people that they are on a road to self-destruction. while it may be true, nobody likes being told that they have it all wrong, and that they don’t know anything. Keep up the faith, but try to stop being so condescending. I know i have the problem and it’s not yours. i don’t need you to re-itterate that to me.

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cmurphy443 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

First off when some one is trying to help you ,you don’t call them names and when you don’t know what that word realy mean. Second that’s probely why your luck is sooo bad , the way you treat people. You need to get in touch with GOD and JESUS.

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

are you for real? don’t recall ever calling anyone any names, and i don’t know what which word means? I would gladly take any REAL advice. I do not have the time to be judged by self-righteous so-called “christians”. tell me…. do you really believe that condemning a person’s life is going to make them say “oh, okay, i’ve got it all wrong, you must be right!” I am in touch with God and Jesus. seems like you’ve got it twisted. The lord is about love, faith, hope, and compassion. NOT, telling someone that it’s their problem and not yours. so please, before you put your nose in somewhere, try to know what you are talking about.

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

congrats on your new relationship with God. But I think you have a lot of learning to do before you start giving advice.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

****, she got pissed really easily. I thought yuo were being really polite too

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

thank you sir. i am all about freedom of religion; but i can’t stand people who judge and push.

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cmurphy443 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (52 minutes after post)

I’ve heiped people all my life, and I’m very proud of that, I’m not about to let the devil steel my joy. I know you don’t know anthing so i’ll for give you. But you can’t hurt me, God’s got me. Your waisting time cause you don’t have anthing else to do. an idel mind is the devil’s work shop and your’s is his factory….

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (56 minutes after post)

no…you’re wasting my time. and now you start insulting me? wow… aren’t you just the poster child of ignorance. you can quote all the bible verses you want, but until you understand them; they won’t do you a bit of good.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour after post)

an antagonistic reply for someone who worships the prince of peace

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

lol…right?

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

its not laugh out loud funny, more like an ironic smile

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

true

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cmurphy443 offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

I didn’t mean to insult you i’m sorry, but i’m trying to help you and you keep with the name calling and trying to act so educated and your not. may be you should stop drinking…

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 378 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

stop drinking? that was a mean thing to say

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

WHat? who Ever said that I drink? lady, it is apparent that your relationship with God is new, and you are trying to work out the details. Don’t Ever put assumptions on a person you know nothing about. How do you know how educated i am? I spent over 20 years deeply involved in my church; i know you are trying, but the first hurdle you need to get over is the fact that nobody is perfect. Including you! You are so fast to pass judgement on people, that you’re forgetting why you are a christian.

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sethevenso offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

it’s getting to the point where you sound like a child that was just chastised; and now you’re whining

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