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I’m really sorry. I don’t know if anyone here can help with that, though. Some day, THE ONE will come around. You just have to be patient about it. Trust me, I kinda know a little about what you’re going through. My two best friends, one that I love as a friend and trusted, the other a guy that I had liked and he almost asked me out, decided to go out together. Like, I’ve always been the ‘friend’. I’m now in charge of getting them together since the girl’s parents won’t let her date.

I’m really sorry about this. I hope that you get support and just remember, keep your friends close. They are the ones who will be there for you when you need them. Family too. I hope this helped a bit.

ohh…all of them? there isn’t ONE you can turn to? (friends, I mean)
Surely one of your friends can take a little time for you to hang out and talk it out to them, right? They can’t ALL be busy 24/7…or are they?

I think there is nothing wrong with you , she left you for another guy, it is not your fault , i know that it hurts so much but things will get better when you get ready to let her go .

Please don’t lose yourself confidence because you are so amazing as you said above , i would go out with you if you were here ;)

I used to live in sudbury, I feel your pain. I had a similar situation happen and i realized this person was just so lame and i was just with him because there was no one else. eventually i moved to sault ste marie found myself a great guy and realized that i just needed to be patient.
I’m curiouse to know whats keeping you in sudbury. because if all of these great girls are somewhere else. maybe when your done there you should pack up and find out whats out there.

Well if compared to any other guy your a loser stop being a LOSER then. Stop trying to protect everyone, overprotective guys are a REALLY big turn off to most girls…and in my experience noone else likes them either. Sounds like you should just chill a little bit.

I thought you were cause you said and “i’ve given advice and protected every one”. But since thats not it why do you think that “compared to any other guy i lose”?

DarrenRobinson23 wrote:
lol.. you like to make things difficult put it this way.. if a girl does like me but she likes another guy.. she’ll end up going for the other guy

ok. Lets think about the reason she would pick someone else…do you have any bad habits?

DarrenRobinson23 wrote:
no none that i know of. im fairly easy going understanding i have respect for there space love to cook dont mind helping out when needed but not if its a continues need for help

ok, sounds good. What about your personality? Are you assertive, aggressive, or submissive? You may fall between categories so feel free to pick more than one…or come up with your own all together.