Love help: a think i need some help.. - Help.com

i can relate. me and my boyfriend, fight and argue, the past couple months has been hard. i really do love him but he has alot of problems. his brother is going to the middle east for a year and i know he is dealing with that. i have tought about going to the doctors also. and im scared. you have to think what is best for you an if you are happy. this is what i am doing. sometimes you may love someone to death but it not always works out and it’s unfortunate. you may have to take some time apart to thik things through and get everything together before its too late. and take it from there. it hurts very much. but you have to let it play out. im trying to. you arnt the only one.

it will only get worse when you’re married. You can still love her but i really, if your both un happy now, please, for both your sakes, end it now. You can still be her firned, be there when she falls, hopefully she will do the same for you. but dont walk out of her life compleetly. she needs to cope with the death. I say u should end it and just love her as a faithful friend.

No relationship is without it’s challenges. All couples fight but your love for each other should pull you through it. Your both under a lot of stress right now (If I was facing jail, I’d be a bit snippy too). Forget about the drugs, they only make it worse later and don’t run to the alter either. Take more time, and take care of yourselves too - cut down the drinking, eat properly, make love more often to work off the stress and learn to listen - if you both do that, you’ll be okay. Take responsibility for your own happiness, if you rely on someone else to make you happy, you’ll never be.