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I have screwed up so badly…

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I’m a Canadian University student and this was my first year at a new University. THe year started off horrible as I went through a huge depression after the break up of my boyfriend who I had dated for 4 years….
I have screwd up my schooling so bad I basically did not attend school and tried to redeem myself halfway through the year only to find that I would screw up just as bad… I couldnt concentrate on school I couldnt get the motivation to get up and go and here I am with zeros and I need help….
I want to drop out of the school and re-apply next year does anyone know if I will have an academic penalty? or will this work? have a screwed up so badly that I can no longer go to university?? will i be able to get into college? or have a screwed my entire life up????

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circaxxsk8r offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
Newark, DE, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

depends on the university you attend
check out the school website or mpre preferable talk to a school councelor to see if its alright

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CA | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

I go to UToronto. Generally you have to maintain a certain GPA or be on probation in which I think if you are still under the absolute minimum you are suspended for a year. I can’t remember. But yes as previously mentioned definitely call up your registrar/counselor, and find out.

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jejs1997 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Greeley, CO, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (8 hours, 55 minutes after post)

If you want to get through college, you need to clear your mind. Although I know it’ll be tough, your boyfriend is just to deep in your phyche, Just try not to streess on it too much, focus on school first, then when youre ready sort out your feelings for him.

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6 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

he is sorted out - it is just school that i need to get control over.

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6 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

if they try to kick you out, tell them that you suffered from temporary insanity, but your better now. choose something that you can really get away with tho channel the depression angle if you where really depressed you have to milk it for what it’s worth!..a letter from the shrink solidify’s anything, you just need them to right a letter saying that you had a traumatic experience but ur all better now. I bet you a million dollars it will work :)

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